Hi Gents and Ladies,

I didn't say "Evolved Woman".  I'm getting a little tired of that phrase - mostly because it's overused a lot lately.  But, in Mark Groves' article, "Why You Might Not Be Ready for the Evolved Man You Say You Want", he makes a very strong case for what an "evolved" man looks like and why he may be a challenge to some women. 

Please read it to help get the context for this article.  Mark did a beautiful job and managed to get the attention of a lot of people.

His 6 main points?

1.       You will have to share the driver's seat with him

2.       He will see things in a way that you may never have

3.       He will challenge your shit

4.       You might not feel loved

5.       You will love beyond what you have ever known

6.       Communication will be his greatest strength

I believe each one of these can be easily flipped back on men - with an equal, and possibly scary effect.

I'll address just the first one in this article.

 

Are You Ready?

I work with both men and women and get to see them transform themselves as their confidence, clarity, and self-expectations climb to new heights. 

The man is working toward a level of self-respect, accountability, and purpose.  His self-expectations are high and he desires a partner who shares that value in herself.  He knows who he is, what he wants from life, and where he is going. 

He is comfortable in his masculine skin and just as comfortable sharing his gifts of support, strength, and appreciation as he is in sharing his fears and vulnerability.

At least he THINKS so.

Enter the strong, feminine woman.  Is he really ready for her?

 

Sharing the Driver's Seat

She has done her work too.  While she appreciates and encourages his desire to take the emotional captain's "driver's seat" often in their relationship, she knows when it's her turn. She is just as skilled.

And she expects him to respect, appreciate, and honor her ability to drive when she wants to.  It takes a secure man to acknowledge and accept this amazing gift from a woman.

She is well aware of the dance between the feminine and the masculine and may actually know HIM better than he knows himself.  She is generous and gracious in her celebration of his masculine qualities and his unique needs. 

She loves the polarity in their energy and lets him feel her appreciation with an open heart.  She gives without condition what he craves most because it is the woman she wants to be.

And she knows she deserves an equally generous, caring man.  She inspires him to join her not by nagging, criticizing, or manipulating.  She inspires him by BEING inspirational with her love.  She embodies the qualities she wishes to manifest.

He has only one logical choice - learn how to join her in that love...or not.

Are you really ready for that? 

...to be continued in my next newsletter.

 

If you like this topic and this challenge, please feel free to hit reply and send me an email comment, question, or concern.  I am committed to reading and answering all of my email and I look forward to yours.  Let's chat about who you are, what you want, and where you're going.

If you wish to continue talking down the road, we'll go through a process after which you will know what to do and say in any situation.  From your own gut you'll be instinctively doing and saying what strong, confident men do and say and getting the results they get.

To Better Life and Love,

Steve

www.goodguys2greatmen.com

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