Hey,
Behold.
The blessed 2x4 of Clarity pictured to the right is your new best friend.
I've mentioned this amazing tool over the years as a metaphor for an instantaneous realization of TRUTH.
Once you get clobbered by this bad boy, the cobwebs of uncertainty and indecision are gone. Your mind sharpens.
You know just what to THINK...what to SAY...and what you will DO next.
No more fear. No more walking on eggshells.
Just clear, calm, confident courage.
Read on to find out how it works.
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First, I want to thank the best gift-giver of all time for making this for me. Sven Masterson is a friend, colleague, brother and coach who thought the 2x4 of Clarity needed to be brought to life. So he did. Thanks, Sven!
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Here's What a Lack of Clarity Sounds Like
* Whenever she criticizes me, I don't have a clue how to respond.
* I don't know what to do for our anniversary because we're talking about separating.
* She won't agree to marriage counseling, so what should I do now?
* I think she's seeing someone else, but I don't know if I should confront her or not.
* I think I need to end this relationship, but I'm afraid of how to bring it up.
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Here's Why a Lack of Clarity Sucks
* We feel stuck in limbo and uncertainty with no way out.
* We feel out of control with no power or influence in our life or relationship.
* We feel like a big, fat loser
* We live in a world of blame and resentment which makes matters worse.
* We are wishy-washy, tentative and unattractive...and we hate feeling like that.
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Here's How the 2x4 of Clarity Helps You
The 2x4 of Clarity is almost like MAGIC.
But the magic doesn't come from outside of you. It doesn't come from your coach or therapist.
Clarity is always available to you because it if self-created.
Once you're hit with the 2x4 of Clarity, you gain an instant connection with your internal wisdom.
Your personal compass becomes aligned with a clearly defined understanding of your personal values.
You KNOW EXACTLY WHAT YOU BELIEVE IN AND WHAT YOU WANT.
The FEAR OF THE UNKNOWN is replaced with a clear, calm decision that things shall change for you. They must.
And now the fear of things staying the same drives you toward a clarity and decisiveness that feels like you've been shot out of a cannon.
You are now clear about WHAT YOU WANT and no longer worry about WHAT YOU DON'T WANT.
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How We Help You Find Clarity, Confidence and Courage
The GG2GM coaching philosophy and methodology is very, very specialized. We work only with men. Men exactly like you...in YOUR situation and in YOUR current mindset and relationship predicament.
Our style of coaching de-emphasizes the importance of measuring your clarity, confidence and courage by the responses of your partner or the current temperature of your relationship.
What we know CLEARLY and UNAPOLOGETTICALLY is that happy, secure, clear-headed, confident and courageous men are created from the inside out. And THAT is what we will measure...from this point forward.
And your REALITY will change instantly with each and every permanent change you make in your thinking, your perspective and your RESPONSES to external events and circumstances.
This is why CLARITY is so important.
It clarity about:
* What values and operating principles you hold yourself accountable to
* What you expect of yourself and FOR yourself as a self-respecting, confident man of value
* How to respond lovingly and effectively to those who are acting outside your personal values and boundaries
* How to respond fearlessly to outside triggers and challenges without being an asshole
