When our marriages were ending we clearly remember how the sadness and anger created a relentless ticking bomb in our chests.
Our wives pulling away caused fearful thoughts, anxiety, and then MORE paralyzing thoughts. We had nobody to talk to who could understand and that felt incredibly lonely.
There is nothing worse than feeling like everything you do and say is just digging the hole of despair deeper. You feel like you can't do anything right and the knot in your gut just gets tighter.
When a woman starts distancing herself emotionally and physically most of us go into “damage control mode.” We immediately start reacting from a place of macho bravado or childish avoidance which only serves to make things worse.
The only way you'll be able to influence your relationship in a way that will change how she is reacting toward you is to respond in a clear, confident, manly way that first makes YOU feel better about YOU.
This response must be conscious on your part. You have to change your energy from fear and uncertainty to an energy of confidence and clarity... and when you do, everything will change for you.
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