Why You Should TAKE instead of GIVE This Valentine's Day (special announcement)

Published: Sun, 02/07/21

Hey,

Valentine's Day started around the year 497 A.D. and ever since then men have been anxious about what to give their sweethearts.

The week before the holiday is filled with tension and anticipation and the week after can be filled with disappointment and frustration.

This year we want to suggest this year you take something away.

The Hallmark holiday people, the flower industry and the diamond jewelers have all painted a romantic picture of you picking out the PERFECT gift to express your undying love and commitment.

The imagery always shows a beautiful couple enjoying the moment of a tender kiss, a loving moment and her adoring look of gratitude for you being the man she's always dreamed of.

And you just KNOW there will be some sweet lovemaking before the day is through.

Gulp. If you're anything like me these commercials can get you every time.

Us guys have been programmed to believe there is a cultural norm around this holiday whereby the man finds the perfect token of his love and he will receive all the love, adoration and affection he can imagine.

If you're reading this email you already know that's a crock. That trick hasn't worked for years if your marriage has been struggling.

But you're probably going to try anyway, aren't you?

Watch this video. Try this instead this year.

Give Her NOTHING for Valentines Day (take something away instead)

What If You Took Something Away This Year?

What if the best gift you could give her was to take away the following?

1. Tension

2. Disappointment

3. Expectation

What if you replaced those with these?

1. Lightness

2. Playfulness

3. Surprise

Think about it. Think about what YOU really love!

How do YOU feel when you spend quality time with someone who is sincerely happy and light in their own skin?

How do you feel when the mood around you is playful, amusing and enthusiastic?

How do you feel when you're offered something surprising, exciting or scary?

How about his Valentine's Day you decide to TAKE AWAY any negative energy associated with your marital frustrations?

What if you simply TAKE AWAY the pressure of talking about the

relationship and the expectation of certainty?

It would be an amazing gift for both of you, actually.

Then, get creative. What would you absolutely LOVE to do? Something unconventional. Something scary. Something exciting.

Think of things that would make you laugh or feel nervous. (one guy recently decided he's signing up for his and her 40th Anniversary sky-diving jumps).

Maybe a picnic hike with a great bottle of wine? Maybe an escape room date? Maybe make your own pizza night with the kids where you do all the planning, prep and work?

Get creative. You can do this. You really can!

And here's the most important part.

Take away ALL EXPECTATIONS for any particular reaction or outcome. (including Valentine's Day sex)

The whole point is to take away old patterns of disappointment and pressure.

Simply choose to BE light. Be playful. And BE surprising.

No matter how she responds on the outside, she will quietly appreciate the gift on the inside.

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We're going to keep sending you some special Valentine's Day support emails like this over the next couple of weeks.

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*****

Lotta love, brother,

Steve

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