If Your Wife Had a Spark Plug...Would You Change It?

Published: Sun, 11/22/20

Hey,

If you're anything like me, the answer is "Hell yes, I would change that spark plug!" (And the oil and air cleaner while I'm at it)

And therein lies the problem.

I'm a "fixer". How about you?

I love to troubleshoot, analyze, dissect and solve problems. And because I've gotten pretty good at it, I tend to see every problem as "fixable" with enough focus, time and elbow grease.

What about your wife, marriage and sex life?

Are you thinking externally about this issue?

Thinking that a quick error code check and a tune-up should whip everything back into shape?

Yeah, I've been there...done that. Doesn't work. Why?

Because you have to understand the SYSTEM of what you're working on before you can improve it.

Ever see a guy who knows nothing about cars pop the hood and start banging on things? Well, I kind of did that in my 28-year marriage.

I didn't understand REALLY how it all worked. I didn't know why I would wind up so incessantly frustrated and resentful that I couldn't "fix" it.

I recently did a series of videos with a really great lady named Silke Schwarzkopf with 2nd Act TV.

She wanted to know all about what I teach guys. I think she was a little skeptical at first. (She asked me about my relationship with "The Red Pill" movement)

Take a look for yourself. It was a great conversation. I've got two more of these to share with you later.

Relationships after 50: She Says She Wants Space? Help for Men Struggling in Their Relationship!

If you have something to add to the conversation, leave a comment for Silke. She always replies and will appreciate it.

And if it's really personal, you might feel more comfortable having a private conversation with me or one of our certified coaches.

By this time you know how I feel about the importance of MEN talking with other MEN. We say "Mountain lions need other mountain lions to become even better mountain lions."

These free consultations are always mind blowing. This is our favorite reaction.

"I'm not sure what I expected for our call, but holy crap, I got way more out of this than I expected. Why are men NOT being taught this stuff in grade school?!"

What stuff? Here are some video highlights:

Why I can't stop helping men like you (like me) 1:45
The things wives say that make us start Googling like mad at 3:00am (these are warning signs too) 2:25
GG2GM vs. Red Pill Theory (this is important) 4:00
Why you can't fix a woman like a John Deere tractor 7:15
The things your dad never told you about women 8:15
The only course online that teaches you How to Defuse the Divorce Bomb and keep your self-respect intact! 9:30

I just scratch the tip of the iceberg in this video. There's so much more for you to learn. I'm here when you're ready to change the rest of your life.

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Lotta love, brother

Steve

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