Horses hate pressure, and they're so sensitive to the slightest changes. That's why it's such a great analogy when we teach men about what pressure is to women in romantic, sexual relationships.
Just as with horses, pressure is felt by your woman in a million different ways. From the way you look at her, the way you talk to her, the way you walk toward her, even the way you open or close a door.
Women are so sensitive that they can sense when your mood changes (often even before you have) which can make her become agitated, defensive and back away.
From a young age, women are taught to detect pressure, to detect dangerous men, to detect anything that isn’t safe.
They feel pressure by the way we frown, the way we complain, by the way we breathe, by the way we hold ourselves in front of them.
They feel pressure by the way we feel about ourselves.
Women can feel negative pressure or threatening pressure by the way we disagree or argue.
But the good news is that they can also sense pressure in a positive way too.
This is one thing we talk a lot about in our coaching programs.
Some positive pressures that she can feel from you are:
Your positive confidence
Your ability to lead your emotions in a positive way
The positivity of the environment that you create when she's in your presence
She loves that kind of pressure.
It’s a leading kind of pressure as opposed to a negative kind of controlling pressure.
In our coaching we explain how to know when you are creating negative pressure that threatens, intimidates and pushes away or repels her.
And we explain how you create a positive pressure that is felt as a positive tension.
Positive tension can be positive emotional tension or positive sexual tension.
We teach you to know the difference between negative tension and positive tension.
We teach you to create positive and stop creating the negative.
We explain how you have an amazing untapped super power.
It's the power to create a new relationship by simply changing who you're being.
No more waiting for her to make the changes you want to happen.
If you want more connection – you must become more connected.
If you want more respect – you must become more respectable.
If you want more openness – you must become fearlessly vulnerable.
And if you want more affection and sex – you must become unapologetically affectionate and sexual.
A client told me last week that he turned down sex!
Sounds unbelievable I know, but it’s true.
He chose to learn how to LEAD.
He learned how to create a new environment and now he goes through each day with a big grin on his face. His business is booming, his friendships are stronger and his sex life is incredible.
It’s a true story. And it's repeatable. We see it every day.
When you stop reacting to others and learn how to confidently lead…everything in your life gets better.
This is what we love to do with men.
Helping you achieve that calm, confident, peaceful feeling when you see the truth about your masculine power and ability to create the life you dream for.
How do you achieve this state of masculine maturity?
You must take the FIRST STEP of talking to another man who gets you and what you're going through.
