The HOW of becoming a great man isn't difficult to grasp...
Get clear on what you want and start heading toward that, making decisions every day that move you closer to those experiences.
The problem is, to be able to consistently make those decisions and take that action...you have to become a new man.
A man who is thoroughly enjoying his life whether she's a part of it or not.
A man who knows his value in the relationship and calls out anything that questions it.
A man who clearly knows his standards for what he expects to experience in his life and who no longer accepts anything less.
A man who loves being himself.
A man who speaks his mind.
A man who trusts that he can and will create a life filled with deep conversations, laughter, love, connection, fulfilment, passion and lots and lots of sloppy, gooshy sex.
A man who has options and is enthusiastically looking forward to the opportunities in his future.
A man who is no longer afraid.
Every time you hold yourself to being this version of you, your internal voltage goes up, you start feeling the mojo we're always talking about, you feel that sense of masculine confidence and self respect return.
It starts to become your natural state rather than an occasional experience.
When you do this work, you start asking POWERFUL questions of the people around you.
You don't hold back.
You clearly communicate where you're headed by the intention in your words and the conviction in your voice.
You challenge others to join you in a deeper way of living life.
You don't wait. You lead the process.
Your clarity on WHO YOU ARE is the most important thing and that's how it should always be.
You have to make that your number one priority and hold yourself to bringing that person to every situation.
You can only receive what you want when you know that you are worthy of receiving incredible love, affection, respect and adoration.
A powerful, magnetic man isn't just being in control of your emotions and physicality, it's openness and vulnerability, living what you think and feel unapologetically.
