Hey Men,
I'm seeing a very clear and amusing trend in many of the men in my community.
What is it?
INCREASED SEX APPEAL.
What's this, you ask?
Let me answer that with a short story.
A while back at one of my men's bi-weekly meetings in Fort Collins, a guy told us of an interaction with his girlfriend. It came time for him to leave that evening for our men's meeting and he said, Oh, I need to get going, I've got a meeting to get to. She said, What meeting?. He reminded her, I have my men's group every two weeks. I mentioned it to you before. Tonight's
our night.
She replied, So...you're kicking me out of your house so you can go to a men's meeting?? He answered, Well, that's one way to put it I guess.
Her reply? I gotta tell you...I think that's SO HOT!
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What's so hot about it?
It's the fact that he has something so important to him that he is both committed and unapologetic about it.
This is why so many guys are reporting high levels of mojo and sex appeal.
It's the fact that he is calm and confident in telling her about his priorities. And...it's the fact that he is comfortable and unashamed that he has some really cool men in his life for whom he makes time.
And she knows it. She also knows that he makes time for her which is also clearly important to him.
Why does this matter?
It matters because the ONE THING unhappy, frustrated and sex-starved men around the world have in common is this.
They have ZERO high quality male friends in their lives who can consistently listen to them, encourage them and challenge them on their own BS.
Sure, they may have friends to talk about the Denver Broncos, the last elk hunt and how to adjust valves on a Dodge 5.9 liter diesel. But they have no one with whom they can be REAL.
Men in my community share a few other traits.
They are wicked smart, productive, emotionally available and articulate, sensitive, romantic, focused and problem-solving bad asses.
Those traits are both a blessing and curse.
Why?
Because when you have nobody in your life to talk to but your woman you end up emotionally vomiting all over her. (great visual, huh?)
You end up over-sharing, being overly vulnerable and over FIXING everything in your relationship.
And that's both exhausting and unattractive. Zero sex appeal.
I explain a little more in this video.
