The Strange Connection Between Heavy Equipment and Mojo

Published: Sun, 10/14/18

Hey,

Some days I can feel like a big fat wuss.

You?

You know those days of camping out too long on the couch...putting off a list of things you want to do but just can't find the energy.

Sometimes our mojo (self-worth and self-confidence) just takes a major dive and leaves us feeling weak and insignificant.

Most men can remember a time in their life when they felt pretty cocksure about themselves. Maybe it was in school, sports, games, technology...whatever. There's usually a time in our life we can remember when we thought we were doing okay and actually had a little badassery going on.

Then the time comes in your life when you feel like you've totally lost it.

In my experience, part of a man's mojo is boosted through committed, deliberate, focused accomplishment. I'm talking about really focusing on something that fascinates you and spending the time, brainpower and effort to achieve some level of mastery.

I'm not saying that mastering the guitar or chainsaw carving will solve all your problems. After all, true confidence in your value and well-being comes from a deeper spiritual place. (this is a key emphasis in my coaching)

BUT...if your mind and your body have been stuck in neutral, you will feel stuck.

If you haven't learned anything new lately, you will feel ignorant.

If you haven't dedicated yourself to mastering something you REALLY want to master...you will feel like a lazy slob.

Maybe I'm just projecting my own experience here, but I suspect you know what I'm talking about.

Years ago I was a manager of a community with 50 miles of dirt roads. I decided to learn how to properly run a road grader, backhoe and bulldozer. Those things intimidated the hell out of me, but I asked for some guidance and then just practiced...screwed up...practiced some more and so on.

And you know what?

I do feel just a little cocky that I can jump into one of those beasts and make them dance for me.

I'm STILL trying to learn to play a guitar. And this December I'm going to Tulum to live with a 70-year-old Mexican couple and attend a Spanish immersion school. I will become fluent in Spanish before I die. That's a promise I've made myself.

What about you?

What have you been wanting to achieve or learn that you've been avoiding?

What story are you telling yourself about it being "too late" to learn new tricks?

I made this really quick video to explain this point a little deeper.

How to Recapture Your Mojo and Overcome Your Secret Fear (you know which one I mean)

Another major turning point in my life after age 50 was discovering the amazing healing powers of personal development.

In my case, it was instigated by an untimely divorce and the subsequent feelings of agony, anxiety and failure.

I found a fountain of youth in the area of "men's work" and learning how to recapture a powerful sense of confidence, personal value and peacefulness...even in the face of what felt like a colossal failure.

Since then I've created a powerful and amazing community of men around the world who have joined me in the process of mastering masculine mojo.

It's the most liberating, exciting and motivating thing I've ever done. And at 57 years old, I see the next 30 yrs. as the most exciting, adventurous and passionate period in my life!

If you're a man who is ready for that kind of transformation and that kind of outlook, I want to talk with you. I want to know what's going on in your life and/or relationship.

And I want to give you a new lens to look through so you can see that you're going to be just fine. No....better than fine.

If you want to join my world-wide network of men doing the same thing, you've got options.

Here's one option that is booking up and starts on October 25, 2018.

The Mens Cave Group Coaching Program is a 3-month-long, intense experience that will immediately get you on the right path AND connected with my community of men who are ready to meet you, welcome you and support you.

If you want to set up a time to talk about your options and to get some immediate support just fill out and send me this form.

Lotta love brother.

Steve

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