I often coach men in the subtle art of just shutting the f*ck up.
This is right in line with Bruce's point about needing to CONNECT more than needing to COMMUNICATE.
Most men I work with are brilliant, articulate, strategic thinkers and problem solvers. They are experts at analysis, decision making and solution implementation.
What
happens when they try to bring these skills into a "relationship talk" with their woman?
Shit show...that's what.
Why?
Because "communicating" and "problem solving" are not required to fix a
relationship.
In fact, the more we try to manipulate or orchestrate an outcome - to FIX things - the more we create DISCONNECTION.
This is why I teach you to shut the f*ck up with all your brilliance. (this was my biggest hurdle, by the
way)
What do you do instead?
You learn how to BE instead of always trying to DO.
You learn how
connection is created with a woman and what positive, safe and attractive masculinity really looks like.
And guess what?
It's a WHOLE LOT LESS WORK than what you've been trying.
Clients tell me how liberating it feels to be free from fixing things and finally free to just be quiet, aware, confident, present and connected.
A guy can't do this if he's disconnected from himself and his own calm sense of strength and quiet
self-satisfaction.
My purpose is to create ARMIES of dudes like that - one man at a time. Actually, sometimes I do this SIX men at a time.
I've got another Men's Cave Group Coaching program starting in 5 weeks - August 27th. (click that link for details) This will be six amazing men working together with me and my associate, Dan Dore for 3 months. We meet live on Zoom video conferencing.
The program
follows the same process as my one-on-one personal intensives, but you get the added benefit of working and collaborating with other men going through the same work as you. We create a brotherhood for life.
We take special measures to make sure each man is a good fit. We interview men before bringing them into "the Cave" to make sure we understand their situation
and their goals.
Do you know anyone who might be interested in a conversation about that?
If so, tell them to go to THIS CONTACT
FORM to request their Men's Cave Consultation. Please tell them to NOT PAY anything before having their consultation call. 
