How to Make an Irresistible Invitation to a Woman

Published: Sun, 07/15/18

Hey,

There's this unbelievable vacation spot I'm in love with.

It's a sprawling Spanish style home, 7500 square feet, immaculate, stunning home perched on top of a mountain overlooking a village on the Pacific coast of Mexico.

It's got a gourmet kitchen that comes with a private chef and daily maid service. The food is amazing, the weather is perfect and the people are so friendly.

You can walk down the mountain in just minutes for an early morning coffee, horseback ride or to grab a surf board and get another few runs in before lunch time.

At night, I like to hang out with friends in the infinity pool and watch the sunset as the town below starts to come to life. Music plays in the background while we talk about anything and everything and laugh our asses off as the ice cold cerveza lightens our moods.

If you can just get yourself to the Puerto Vallarta airport, I'll pick you up at the curb, throw your bag in the car and take you there. There's one bedroom not yet spoken for...that is, if you're interested in a place like that.

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What did I just do there?

I made you an offer. I gave you an invitation to something I personally love.

It's something I would do with or without you because going there is not negotiable for me. But...it would be pretty cool if you could come along.

I'm unattached to your answer because you gotta do whatever you gotta do. And there are many other people I can invite...people who really love the same stuff as I do. I don't need to set expectations for you - make any rules - or beg you to come.

It's simply an offer to join me in my already amazing plans.

The whole energy of that invitation describes who I am, what I want and where I'm going.

It is impossible to create the life and relationship you want if you don't know who you are, what you want or where you're going.

When I made my "Why You Need to Stop Chasing Women" video a year ago, some guys got the wrong idea.

They thought I was saying you must stop chasing women all together.

No. That's not it.

I want you to stop chasing attention, affection and approval and find that confident, amazing, independent man inside you.

Whether you're single, married or in a committed relationship it's THAT guy who can make invitations and offers instead of begging, controlling or complaining his way to the life he wants.

Watch this video to learn more.

How to Make a Woman an Irresistible Offer

What would your offer sound like?

What kind of plans do you have for your next 30 years?

What are you passionate about experiencing?

What kinds of interactions and conversations do you have that just light you up?

It's the answers to questions like those which can form the basis of the invitations you make.

Do you love deeper, more vulnerable and more connected conversations? How could you make an invitation for that? Who do you know who loves that too?

Do you have a passion for surprise and adventure? What plans do you have to create that? Who do you want to invite without expectations?

What are you willing to do no matter who comes along with you?

I know...you've got a lot of "yeah buts" up your sleeve right now.

What if she says no? What if she always says no? What if I want things she doesn't want? What if my living into my passion ends up driving her away?

Good questions!

I'm not going to answer them for you.

I want you to think about it and come up with your own answers.

Think about the greatest men you know or have read about. Think about how they would answer those questions.

*****

By the way, about that magical place I mentioned in the beginning of this email...it's real.

There's been a lot of demand for my August retreat which is already full. Men asked if there would be another retreat this year and I've said "no".

But what if I created something I would do even if nobody came?

What if I INVITED 6 men to join me and Tim Wade for another incredible meeting of the brotherhood in another amazing location? (We did the Confident Man Ranch Retreat together in April.)

So that's what we're working on next.

Do you know anyone who might be interested in something like that?

Let me know and I'll get in touch with them.

Lotta love, brother,

Steve

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