Hey there guys,
This week's email and video are produced by Dan Dore, the Associate Coach here at Goodguys2Greatmen. We've had requests for
"more of Dan's calm, wisdom" so here you go! Dan is shooting this video from his couch in his Man Cave in the UK.
Take it away, Dan.
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I want to talk to you about something that's very close to my heart.
It's
something that has affected every area of my life in a positive way. In particular it has benefited my relationship with my wife and 3 kids enormously. It brought me back from a place of fear and insecurity and reminded me who I really was.
I wanted to make this video for those of you in a relationship that is struggling. Where you feel like you're constantly worried and walking on eggshells.
When we find ourselves in the midst of a crisis, we often try
anything and everything to make things better, to get back to being calm and relaxed again. But when your wife or partner is keeping you at a distance it's hard, what do you do?
If she's constantly upset or angry, how can you connect with her?
In this video I discuss the best tool to connect emotionally with your wife and start rebuilding your relationship on some solid foundations.
When we communicate with honesty we do two incredibly important things. - We stand up for ourselves and build some self-respect, some self-worth and confidence
- We create a connection with the person we're communicating with
Many people think small lies in a relationship can be ok and can avoid hurting your partner. But without honesty there is no trust.
And a relationship that lacks trust is often tense and devoid of real affection.
When you lead with honesty you will start to build the trust again. When the trust builds, it removes a large potential for worry. And when worry leaves, in comes safety, relaxation and connection.
Creating an
honest relationship builds a cushion between you and the difficulties of the world. Having a partner you can trust and rely on also makes it easier to take the risks that help us grow.
You can’t have a culture of honesty in your relationship just some of the time.
Honesty isn't just about telling the truth either. It's about holding
yourself to account for how you show up. And sometimes holding your partner to account for how they show up too.
Honesty can be brutal so it pays to be considerate with your wording.
If honesty is a value you hold for your relationship, we firmly believe that if you lead, others will follow.
If you keep honesty at the heart of your interactions,
you'll find that the difficulties become less and the connection and affection continues to grow.
If you want to improve your honesty and hold yourself accountable to being a better man we have two invitations for you:
Here are two things we're up to that can help you connect with other men who get you and can support you.
First
There is a new group coaching program starting at the end of June.
This is a chance to join an exclusive group of high quality men who want to support
and be supported by other high quality men.
We are here to share, listen, discuss and debate topics about men, women, sex, relationships and marriage…among other stuff.
Steve and I will be coaching you through our Masculine Confidence Intensive course over a period of 4 months.
Some of the benefits you’ll leave with after completing the program will be:- Claim your masculine guiding principles and personal boundaries
- Reignite your confidence in your own strength and ability to respond to women powerfully and attractively
- Get massive confidence in your decision making and
communication of your desires and goals
- Become an unapologetically masculine and passionate man
- Learn the truth about feminine power and how you could be “dancing with it” instead of fighting it
- Develop a bold new attitude of pushing your comfort zone and eliminating excuses from your life
- Embrace uncertainty and change knowing without a doubt that you will thrive no matter what
- No longer walk on eggshells around women and claim your place as a powerful, loving, compassionate man
- Create positive sensual tension everywhere you go and enjoy the life of an inspired, engaged, motivated and sexual man.
This Program is For You If:- You want to create an intense and permanent SHIFT in your mindset in order to feel clear in your decisions and confident in your actions.
- You want new tools,
tactics and strategies to deal with your current challenges and emotional triggers. You want to be a man who operates to his own values and expectations of himself.
- You want to be a man who confidently faces difficult circumstances and responds with calmness and clarity while staying independent of any specific outcome.
- If you want to be a part of an exclusive group of men who have your back then find out more about the Mens Cave Group Coaching Program here.
Second
You’re probably aware of the retreats coming up this month and later this year here with Steve in Colorado.
These will be 6 men
maximum and will be one of the most powerful, emotionally significant and life-changing events you will ever attend.
It’s in a unique Rocky Mountain setting on my ranch near Denver. We’re going to hike, relax, eat, drink, talk, laugh and learn together. We’ll share sunrises and sunsets together.
We will be listening to each other’s triumphs and tribulations and supporting each other to go to a new level in their masculine power.
You will see coaching and be coached
to learn a new perspective and a whole new strategy to change your circumstances and get what you want.
Prepare to get a serious shot of confidence, clarity and optimism about your future.
I call it a “Confident Leader” retreat because the most important part of being a leader is knowing how to confidently lead yourself first.
Find out more about the mens retreats coming up here.
I'm looking forward to meeting you.
With love brothers,
Dan
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