Hey,
A client once told me a story about his new girlfriend that made me laugh out loud.
It was a Wednesday evening around 5:30pm. She was sitting on his couch and getting hungry.
She said, "What do you want to get to eat
tonight?"
He said, "Tonight's my men's group night. I mentioned it earlier. I'll be eating at the restaurant. I need to leave in a few minutes."
"Oh", She said. "I forgot. Ummm...so I guess that means you're kicking me out?"
"That's one way to look at it, I guess.", he replied.
Then she smiled and said, "I gotta tell you. I think it's so HOT you're kicking me out to go to a men's group meeting!"
Yeah...what a woman.
That's the first story he told when he showed up that night. The guys laughed at the story and sat there with a little envy that he had such a cool woman in his life.
Whether it's a girlfriend or a wife,
this reaction is typical.
Why?
Because she is being a witness to a man who has made a freaking decision. He's a man who made
a plan. He has a clear value around something he cares about. And it's not negotiable.
A rare man indeed.
I had a
bunch of these men with me and my business partner, Tim Wade, for 4 days at the Confident Man Ranch Retreat this week.
