How to Stop Being Wishy Washy and Get What You Want

Published: Sun, 04/15/18

Hey,

Has your woman ever complained about you being undependable or wishy-washy?

Do you ever feel like you're stuck and just can't follow through on things?

Do you ever feel like other men are more confident than you and get more done?

I want to talk about being a WISHY-WASHY MAN.

They are more common than you think. I was one - and still am sometimes.

The key traits of a wishy-washy man are:

He is slow to answer questions and says "I don't know" a LOT
He feels sluggish in his mind and body and regrets not following though on things he wants
He finds himself DEFENDING himself when pressured by others
He doesn't really have a f&*$ing opinion about anything
He stews quietly in anger about his circumstances - mostly mad at himself

Any of those sound familiar?

A wishy-washy man is uninspiring to himself.

He has a lot of negative self-talk and beats himself up a lot.

He isn't happy because he can HEAR HIMSELF speak and he doesn't like what he hears.

Often, he knows his wife wants more from him. More leadership, more decisiveness and more confidence.

And it pisses him off that he just can't seem to follow through.

In this video I give you more insight and offer you the first steps you can take to fix this.

How to Stop Being Wishy Washy and Get What You Want

This is a little "tough love" brother.

I can't tell you how grateful I am to have men in my life who will challenge my excuses, my justifications and my fears.

They will call me on my bullshit when they see that my thinking is screwed up. And they do it with love and with my best interest in mind.

That's why I'm bringing it up in this email for you. Maybe you don't have anyone to challenge you to step up and out of your sluggishness.

Sometimes just having a mirror held up to your face makes a man flip and switch and start making changes immediately.

It's absolutely amazing how fast a man can turnaround his sense of confidence, clarity, focus and happiness when he decides he is going to OWN his thoughts and his actions.

One of the biggest challenges for the wives and girlfriends of my clients is believing how fast a mental shift is made in their man. They want to believe it, but they don't trust it. (as in, why couldn't you do this years ago?!)

But, it is real. And it's permanent.

It's an immediate switch from wishy-washy to confident, clear and accountable. It's almost too good to be true.

This is what we promise when you to come to the May 20-23, 2018 Confident Man Ranch Retreat in Loveland, Colorado

Promise? Really? How can we promise that?

Because it's actually a VERY SMALL shift in your perspective that's needed to cause an exponential shift in your results.

When you change your core THOUGHTS, you will change your core EMOTIONS, which will change your ACTIONS.

It's that simple.

This isn't a chest thumping, war painting, Kumbuya retreat. I would suck at running that kind of retreat.

It's a retreat for everyday men who are ready to show up powerfully to support each other in the process of becoming confident men who create the life they want.

They don't settle and they don't hide. They create.

Only ten men are allowed to attend. Seven spots are taken already.

Do you want in?

Go HERE to learn a whole lot more about the retreat and register.

What's in it for you?

A private, mountainside cabin with private bath along a gorgeous river

3 squares a day I swear will put 5 lbs. on you if you're not careful

All inclusive means you need NO MONEY when you're with us

You will be challenged on your B.S. excuses and will learn how to declare who you really are, what you want and where you're going.

Amazing men, powerful conversations and laughter...lots of it.

Return home with a new mindset, tools and strategy to feel clear and confident in creating what you want.

How's that sound?

Lotta love, brother,

Steve

P.S. I answer all my emails personally and want to hear from you. Hit REPLY if you're thinking about coming, but have this weird, uneasy, excited feeling in your gut...that's a sign you should pay attention to.