There's a "chicken and the egg" situation I want to address right here...right
now.
And this is crucial to HOW YOU THINK about getting what you want in life and relationships.
How you
think about everything is the only control you have and all you will ever need.
Why?
Because the
moment you change the way you think about the things happening in your life...those very things will start changing in front of your eyes.
I'm in the business of helping men CHANGE THEIR PERSPECTIVE about what it means to be a man. I teach them HOW TO THINK differently.
What causes us to become needy, dependent and afraid in relationships?
What is the true source of confidence, clarity and well-being if it's not in the warm, accepting arms of a woman?
I ask men to tell me what they MOST WANT in the next 6 months. What's the most important question they need answered?
Here is the #1 most popular question I get from men.
"How can I get my wife/girlfriend to like me/love me/pay attention to me/give me affection/desire me/touch me/have sex with me again?"
And then I ask them what
they see as their biggest barrier to getting what they want.
Here is #2 most popular question I get from men.
"How can I find the confidence/strength/self-esteem/courage to be the man I know I can
be?"
You see the problem already, don't you? (my readers are incredibly smart, intuitive people...I know this)
Those two questions need to be flip-flopped.
There is no mystery about which comes first - confidence or attractiveness.
We must FOCUS on the real problem and make it our top priority.
Your sense of confidence/strength/self-esteem/courage precedes every positive thing you want to create.
And, obviously, if you have the OPPOSITE of those things...you will create nothing you want.
I talk about this more in this video.
