Hey,
One way to get unconditional love and affection and to be given god-like status is to pay for
it.
There are women who make a very good living of it. They will forgive you all of your misgivings, ignore all of your bad habits and will give you everything you want without argument or hesitation.
And, hey, I don't judge you if you go that route. Another way to get unconditional love is to get a dog. They too are incredibly devoted and forgiving. As a predator, they don't operate from fear, distrust and suspicion.
But the women in your real relationships are different, aren't they? If you want a real relationship with a woman, there's more work to do. If you want easy affection, natural attraction and intimate connection...you have to be more mindful of WHO you are being and HOW you are being.
Women seem to have this unspoken sensitivity to who we are being and how we are treating them. They sometimes claim we can "make them feel" things and go so far as to believe that we can "make them happy".
I don't believe anyone has the power to "make" someone else happy. Happiness
always has been and always will be an "inside job".
However, I do believe that two people in a relationship can DEFINITELY create an environment that is either ripe for love and affection -OR- an environment that is ripe for fear, distrust and suspicion.
As you know, I teach men their part in being MINDFUL and AWARE of how they are BEING as a man.
I emphasize that being who you want to be on YOUR terms - according to YOUR standards is your top
priority.
Why? Because if the only reason you choose to become mindful and aware of how you are being is to be loved...you're pretty much screwed in life.
You'll be operating from
insecurity and fear. You will feel desperate, needy and constantly on the look-out for respect and approval from others.
You will never feel more at peace (and have LESS DRAMA) as when you develop a crystal clear sense of self-confidence and learn to approve of your own bad
self.
Watch this video for more details.
