She said, "Why don't you just call a REAL plumber?!"

Published: Sun, 01/28/18

Hey,

Who do you call when a woman has said or done something that totally pisses you off?

You know...those times when she makes a comment or a judgment about you that feels like a knife in the gut.

It's that accusation or "joking" criticism which has a poison tip.

And that poison causes your nostrils to flare with anger...ready to defend yourself or return hostile fire.

What's really going on here?

You don't feel like you're good enough.

And that's just about the shittiest feeling any human can have.

When we feel inadequate, unworthy, unvalued or unappreciated it can trigger our boyhood insecurities so quickly we REACT like a "bouncing betty" land mine.

Once the explosion goes off...you're done.  There's no recovery.

But, what if you had a trusted friend - or group of friends to touch base with first?

What if you delayed the explosion and took a deep breath to reset yourself?

What if you reset your THOUGHTS and immediately felt more confidence instead of defensiveness?

What if you had the perfect response to the criticism that would have otherwise destroyed you?

In this video, I coach my associate, Dan Dore, through a real-life situation he had recently with his wife.
  Disrespect & Dealing With Emotional Triggers - Live Coaching
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As you saw in the video, we had a great conversation about the trigger he felt being exposed as a "bad husband and handyman".  Worse yet, it was in front of friends...one of whom happens to be a fantastic handyman.

This coaching conversation wasn't faked.  This is a real and serious issue Dan's been working on for a while.

And for this one sensitive issue, he's got new tools and a new way to think about what's happening.

He's ALSO decided to own how he wants to respond to the home improvment issues on HIS terms - not hers.

It's amazing what happens when a man decides to take a deep breath, chuckle at himself and then own his response.

No more reacting.  No more shame.  No more land mines.

This is exactly what we do in group coaching.

Dan and I are leading the Men's Cave Group Coaching event starting February 15, 2018.

This includes 12 LIVE video sessions with the whole group and will last 4 months.

It's a chance for you to invest in yourself, make a huge transformation in your mojo, drastically increase your confidence and attractiveness AND make some amazing new friends.

Go HERE to learn a whole bunch more about it and to see the two payment options.  Sign up at the bottom of the page.

And if you're thinking it might be cool...but you're not sure...let's talk!  Dan and I will schedule a 30 minute chat to find out what you want, what's challenging you and determine if a group program is for you or not.  To set up the call just email either:


Here are some questions that may help.
  • Do you wish you felt stronger in your relationships and more confident in yourself?
  • Do you want to speak more honestly without fear of what other people think of you?
  • Do you want to stop apologizing for being a passionate man who wants connection, affection and appreciation?
  • Do you want to have vision of your future so powerful it gives you goosebumps every day?
Times a wasting, so don't procrastinate.  (I know how that goes).

Here's the link once more:

Lotta love, brother,

Steve 

P.S. I live by a saying that goes like this.  "You will never take a man deeper in his life than you've been willing to take yourself."  Last year I was a part of a six-month group coaching program that cost $12,000.  Freaking stupid, right?  I was thinking so.  I was proved wrong in 3 weeks.  The support, insight, confidence and collective mojo we created allow me to book enough clients to pay for the program.  In just 3 weeks!  I'm amazed at how fast things change when a guy decides to focus on something.
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