The 3 Sure Signs You're Not Ready for a Girlfriend

Published: Sun, 01/07/18

Hey,

I just got back from a month off from my business and am ready to dive into 2018 with you.

For the first time in my life I decided to STOP DOING STUFF for a month and just practice BEING.

I tried BEING calm and relaxed.  I tried not operating to a schedule.  I tried being quiet and seeing what comes up when I just shut my mouth and listen to my own wisdom.

Don't you hate hearing people talk like that?  It's like they're trying to Obi-Wan Kenobi or something.

Yet, I was drawn to the idea of just slowing down and not being so manic about getting stuff done, making money and paying bills.

So my girlfriend and I went to Maui for almost 2 weeks.
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And I pretty much sucked at the Obi-Wan thing.  But I learned something about myself. 

I love what I do and there's not a damn thing wrong with thinking about it.  I just need more practice in letting go of the 24/7 buzz of needing to DO something all the time.

I'm work in progress doing the best I can.  That's a mantra you can borrow.  No need for perfection.  Today I'm doing my best.  Tomorrow is another shot at it.

*****

Speaking of girlfriends, there's something I want to share with you in this video.

I'm seeing a lot of men falling into a huge trap.

This can be a trap if you're married, in an exclusive relationship...or even if you're single.

Having a girlfriend can be a HEALTHY decision or it can be a messy, emotional cry for help.

You can make her the delicious icing on your cake. 

Or you can make her the flour in your cake - the very source of strength, stability and confidence in your life. 

Guess which one I want for you.

Here are the 3 signs you know you're not ready for a girlfriend yet.

  3 Ways to Know You're Not Ready for a Girlfriend
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Lotta love, brother,


Steve


P.S. I keep hearing from guys who just finished my book saying,  "Holy crap, I wish someone told me this stuff 20 years ago!"  Yeah, me too.  That's why I wrote it.  More here if you're interested.

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