The Subtle and Sneaky Cause of Divorce Nobody Wants to Talk About!

Published: Sun, 12/17/17

Hey,

Why doesn't anyone want to talk about this subtle, sneaky cause of divorce?

Because they are STONEWALLING!

This is the 3rd predictor of divorce and one of the hardest to fix.

Why??

Because we're too busy playing games with stonewalling, sometimes referred to as "The Silent Treatment."

This newsletter and video are a continuation of my 4-part series. 

There's this guy named John Gottman who does a ton of research on marriage.

He's kind of a big deal because of all the detailed analyses he's done on what makes relationships last and marriages survive...or crash and burn.

I'm putting his research into easy-to-understand language and easy to implement actions to stop the madness!

He came up with the term "The Four Horseman of the Apocalypse".  These are the FOUR BEHAVIORS that can predict divorce with about 90% accuracy.

In other words, if these things show up consistently in your relationship, you can bet things won't be going your way in the future.

The four behaviors are:
  1. Criticism
  2. Defensiveness
  3. Stonewalling
  4. Contempt
In each of these videos, I will break down each behavior this way:

a.  What is it?
b.  What it is not.
c.  What is looks like or sounds like
d.  How it poisons the relationship
e.  How to change your behavior now and start doing something different

In this video, I talk about STONEWALLING.

If you want to see the previous newsletters on the first two causes of divorce you can see them HERE in my newsletter archives.
  How To Handle The Silent Treatment (And What You're Doing To Cause It)
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If you want to read a whole bunch more of my tips go HERE to get the book that men are telling me is turning their relationship around in one reading.

And stay tuned for more announcements about my 2018 retreats coming up.  I'd love to meet you in person!

And if you want to get on the FIRST NOTIFICATION LIST for the May 20-23, 2018 Horse Ranch Men's Retreat in Loveland, CO...hit reply and say, "I want on that Horse Ranch Retreat list!" 

Also, in February, I'm running a online group coaching program for 10 great men.  It's called the Goodguys2Greatmen Men's Cave Group Coaching Event. 

This is a 4-month - 12 session program where I am taking a tribe of 10 men through my Masculine Confidence Intensive program normally done 1 on 1.  This format will be more affordable and have a community of men supporting you through the process.

Do you want to secure your spot in the Men's Cave Group Coaching Event?

The sign up page is READY NOW.  All you need to do is register and pay a deposit.  I'll send you a confirmation when you do that.  Save your spot HERE now.

Lotta love, brother,


Steve

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