Hey,
Have you ever been driving along on a snow packed road in total control of your car...dashboard drumming to the
radio...and all of the sudden...
...the car starts sliding out of control!
It's the same feeling when you're leaning back in a chair in school and for a split second you feel like you're falling backwards.
Your stomach get knotted and all of your survival mechanisms kick in.
Your heart rate is racing, you're sweating, breathing fast and wide-eyed as you try to recover control.
Kinda like when you first find out your woman is pulling away and your relationship is falling apart.
"I think we should spend some time apart."
"I don't think have a connection anymore - we never really
did."
"I need space to figure out what I really want - it's not about you...it's me!"
Yeah, that stuff.
One thing I know for sure is that over-reacting doesn't
work.
Most guys steer the car right into a ditch.
This video is about a different mindset. One where you take control, but gently.
Then when you lose control of the car you
"steer the car in the direction you want to go."
What the hell does that mean?
I explain more here.
