The Huge Mistake Men Make Before They Throw in the Towel

Published: Sun, 09/24/17

Hey,

I work with a lot of men who are standing on the hairy edge of major decisions.

* Is this relationship worth saving?

* How do I know if I've done all I can?

* How do I know if it's time to throw in the towel?

* How do I know if I'm ready for a new relationship?

* What if I make the wrong decision?

When you have this much doubt and uncertainty it is always caused by the same thing.

Lack of clarity.

And when you're lacking clarity you find yourself in the same stupid arguments saying the same destructive things.

When you lack clarity you're over-reacting to everything and riding the emotional crazy train anywhere it takes you.

When you lack clarity you feel out of control and fearful of every reaction and every consequence to any decision you make.

The huge mistake men make before deciding to stay, leave or start a new relationship is not getting CLARITY.

You know you have clarity when you are feeling calm instead of anxious.

You feel confident instead fearful.

Your words and your actions are more purposeful and deliberate.

No, you're not an emotionless, robotic ass.

You're actually more tuned in to your own emotions and empathetic toward the feelings of others.

You're more aware of your intentions, your words and the impact you have on others.

Clarity gives you a peaceful sense of acceptance - even when you're in a swirling cloud of sadness. Even when others have hair trigger tempers and the tension is thick and gooey.

THIS is where I want you to be before you make ANY major decision.

From here you will speak your truth, express your real feelings and make the best decisions.

From here...the consequences from the decisions you make are the consequences that are supposed to happen.

I explain this more in this video. (see if you notice the ghost horse stealing the scene)

Who REALLY Dies First? Married or Single Men?

How do you get clarity?

We get clarity through a commitment to discover ourselves.

I know...sounds woo-woo. It's not.

I'm talking about discovering the real source of your fears.

Understanding the cause of your self-doubt and indecision.

It takes work with other men before light switches start going off - one after the other - and you start getting clear.

This happens because you are learning that you're not alone in this mess. MANY men have walked this course before and there is a right way through it and a wrong way.

My mission is to teach you the right way.

Last week I mentioned the new pilot course coming up. If you've been on the fence about coaching with me, this may be an easy first step for you.

We'll be signing up exactly TEN men for this 5 week course called:

How to Diffuse the Divorce Bomb

What to think, what to do and what to say when she says she’s not in love anymore.

A LIVE, 5-Week, laser focused intensive designed to give you back your confidence, emotional strength, clarity, peace, happiness and mojo.

Tim Wade (you're going to love his story) and I are running this PILOT COURSE in order to tweak the final version for release early next year.

Therefore, we're charging a fraction of the price. The investment is $497 for roughly 6 live hours of group training and Q&A. In between weeks 3 and 5 we are doing 45 minutes of personalized coaching with each man in the course. There will also be a SECRET Facebook group to interact during the course.

The exact days and times are being nailed down now.

If you're interested in getting the first offer when the detailed web page and payment system is ready, hit REPLY now. Tell me you're interested and want a chance at first dibs on the ten spots.

You will be put on a priority VIP list of men who think they are interested. We'll notify this list first before offering it to anyone else.

Here's one more piece of advice about being an clear, unapologetic man of value.

It used to freak me out to try to "sell you something" in these newsletters.

Too sleazy. I don't want to drive you away.

Now I understand the critical importance of unapologetically standing up for I value, for what I believe and how I want to show up in the world.

A man of value doesn't "sell" anything to those he wants in his life.

He gets clear on his value and he simply offers it to others without expectations or conditions.

He is independent from the outcomes.

He does this because he believes in himself and he's clear about his mission.

I'm referring to you. ;^)

Lotta love, brother,

Steve