How to Calm the Paralyzing Fear of Divorce

Published: Sun, 09/17/17

Hey,

I often say that one of the biggest factors leading to divorce is a man's FEAR of divorce.

Why?

Because when we're scared of anything we tend to screw things up.  

With the exception of your life saving instincts on the freeway or when threatened with physical harm, operating from fear usually has a bad outcome.

When it comes to the gut wrenching, anxiety ridden fears of losing your relationship, family and wealth...operating from fear is the worst thing you can do.

I know this first hand.

When it happened to me I went into extreme reaction mode.  Pleading, begging, endless talking, demanding, interrogating and bargaining were some of the fearful (and wildly ineffective) things I tried.

Fear was making me crazy and making everything worse.

If you're a guy who suspects he may be on the road to separation or divorce this video is for you.

Even if you're just getting the icy cold shoulder, distancing, dismissiveness or disrespect...you need to know how to handle yourself.

Watch this first.
The Truth About Your Fear of Divorce

The truth is that behind the scary curtain of divorce...things aren't as terrifying as they seem.

There's no questioning the incredibly crappy prospect of losing the family unit, full time with your kids, your wife and about half your wealth.

It does suck and it's not the least bit fun.

But...feeling gripped with fear, resentment, anger and sadness will ruin any chance you have at improving things.  Those feelings will make you think, say and do a variety of stupid things that will only make matters worse.  (hey, I'm an expert on that)

And if you can't find your way to a calmer, more confident frame of mind now, a post divorce life won't look very good either...guaranteed.

If you're like most men I work with the current version of your marriage isn't serving you all that well.

The lack of closeness, connection, passion, respect, trust and intimacy of any kind have reached record levels.

Saving this marriage as it is doesn't sound so great.

You need to start looking at this as an opportunity for improvement rather than a death sentence.

With a clearer, stronger and more confident mindset, you will start to see that your life is about to get better - much better - one way or another.

And with this mindset you will relax and start thinking, doing and saying the things that reflect your true values and the life you really want to create.

Do you want to feel more relaxed and confident?

Who doesn't?

This is what I do for men - one man at a time - with my 90-Day Masculine Confidence Intensive.

While it's been amazingly successful in helping men gain more confidence, clarity, peace, inner strength and bold leadership skills...it's not the right fit for everyone.

This is why I've partnered with a dear friend and amazing coach, Tim Wade, to create a new option.

We're creating a unique course called:

How to Diffuse the Divorce Bomb
What to think, what to do and what to say when she says she’s not in love anymore.

This is A LIVE, 5-Week, lased focused intensive designed for men facing possible divorce.  It teaches you the specific tools and the mindset you should use immediately.  This course and the group support system will help you get back your masculine confidence, clarity, peace, happiness and mojo...quickly!

I will be sending more emails out soon with more information for you.

We are accepting only 10 men for our pilot course which will be delivered via live video conference.  The investment of $497 is significantly lower than the final course investment will be.

I'm telling you all this because you're a devoted subscriber and I'm giving you the first opportunity to sign up before we offer spots to the general public.

And honestly, I'd rather have men sign up who already know me and have been doing some reading and self-work.  These men will be the most successful.

Hit reply now to ask me any questions about the course.

And if you know you're already interested in getting a spot, just say so.  I'll put you on the priority list.

Stay tuned for more detailed information on dates and times.

Lotta love, brother,
Steve