The Massive Mistake that Kills Intimacy...and Golf Scores

Published: Wed, 08/09/17

Hey,

There's this mistake nearly all men make when they are trying to get a woman to have sex.

It's the same mistake they make before every golf shot.

Here's a quick example by way of a story.

Hole #6 at my favorite golf course is their "Signature Hole"...an easy Par Three.

Like that woman in your life, it's gorgeous and sexy. The view from the tee is breathtaking. The green is about 100 feet lower in elevation only about 150 yards away - just across a boulder filled ravine.

This should be easy! But it's not easy for me.

Why?

Because, first of all, the shear beauty of the view and the enormous green is intimidating.

Then there's the dainty little flag right there on the edge of the green tempting me to hit right at it. It looks too easy. It feels like a trick.

Then I get all in my head about it.

I change clubs, check the wind again, recheck the distance, play with my grip, adjust my feet, adjust my club face...check the wind again.

Then I start thinking about how tight I'm griping...loosen dammit! Don't forget to use my normal swing. Swing all the way through! Keep my arm straight! Remember to pivot just right.

Then, SMACK! I hit just the top third of the ball and it dribbles into the boulders in the ravine. Another lost ball. Dammit! Dammit! Dammit!

(here's a view from the Hole 6 tee box)

I just made the same massive mistake I made for most of my sexual life.

I was OVER THINKING IT.

I didn't trust myself.

I projected more complexity and fear than the situation warranted.

I focused on everything that didn't matter as much as me just believing in myself and trusting myself.

Instead of assuming success - I was fearing failure.

Do I even need to make the connection for you? Do I need to explain exactly how this shows up with women and intimacy?

I think not.

Have you ever tried to be perfect?

Have you assumed that planets must align just right to have a successful shot at romance?

Have you ever feared rejection so badly it made you show up nervous and tentative?

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