How to Help Her Feel Sexy Again

Published: Sun, 06/18/17

Hey,

Have you ever tried to initiate sex and heard one of these replies?

"Maybe later...we'll see."

"I'm so tired."

"I don't know." or,

"I've got so much to do."

Did you notice that none of those comments is a solid "No"? Yet, most guys I talk to take them personally and chalk them up as flat out rejection. 

They immediately feel resentful and defeated.

And then come the sabotaging thoughts.  

"She's a cold hearted, affectionless, sexless pain in the ass."

"She hates me, doesn't desire me or find me unattractive."

"My sex life sucks and because of her it probably always will."

Maybe that's not you, but that's what I used to think when I got anything but an enthusiastic "Yes". That kind of thinking always lead me down the wrong road and things just got worse - day after day.

I've learned stuff since then.

There's another way to think about what you think about rejection. If you change this you will make major improvements in your relationship.

What if she just needed your help in feeling sexy again?

Here's a video which explains another way to think about rejection.
  How to Help Her Feel Sexy Again
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​​​​​​There's a mental and emotional shift we need to make when it comes to sex and intimacy.

As important as sex and intimacy are to a healthy, happy relationship, they are not the source of  our confidence, happiness and masculine value.

But we often forget this and start acting in needy ways which only sabotage the trust, connection and attraction needed for intimacy.

Our ability to create trust, connection and attraction requires we show up with confidence, happiness and an awareness of our value.

If you're not currently showing up - consistently - with a strong sense of confidence, happiness and personal value, you've got some work to do. 

This is the work men do only with other men. I've committed my life to it and to you.

When you're ready go HERE to apply for a consultation call.  


Lotta love, brother,
Steve

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