Hey,
Yes. It takes only ONE question to get what you want.
Whether it's a better job, more money, a date with a pretty woman, or more sex...there is ONE question separating you from what you want.
It's the question you haven't asked yet.
Yeah, that's it.
You don't get 100% of the things you never ask for.
Yes, HOW you
ask is important. But it's not nearly as important as just ASKING the question.
This is where we continuously fall short of our dreams and desires.
We simply do not ask for what we
want.
Why?
Because we're afraid.
Afraid of rejection. Afraid of looking stupid. Afraid of what others will think.
We're even sometimes afraid that we don't actually deserve to get what we want.
So what do you do?
You make a simple choice.
You have to decide if the fear of the consequences of asking for what you want is greater than
your fear of never getting what you want.
Once that switch flips...once you say this is BS and I'm going try something different...you will see an instant improvement.
Every day I watch men push their uncomfortable edge of being stronger in their values, clearer in their desire and more confident in asking for what they want.
They know they must make changes within
themselves in order to make changes outside of themselves.
And they are AMAZED at the results. They get more affection. Pay raises. Better clients. And more overall peace of mind.
These changes require you to put yourself first.
I'm not saying you need to be an arrogant ass. I'm saying you need to focus on developing your confidence in who you
are, what you want and where you're going.
You can do this while still being the attentive, kind guy you normally are.
But...while
you are busy caring for other people you don't not need to care what they think about you, your values and your burning mission.
A man doesn't let anyone stand in the way of his mission. And he learns to ask directly for the things he wants.
I call this Mountain Lion energy.
Here's my 2nd Annual video from the hummingbird feeder to give you a reminder of how important this is for you.
