How to Squash Drama: The quiet killer of freedom, peace and happiness

Published: Sun, 04/23/17

Hey,

Do you have drama in your life?

Drama is the #1 killer of a man's freedom, peace and happiness.

For the purpose of this letter I offer you a definition.

DRAMA = Any external force of negativity, unrest, emotional projection or demands on your time or attention that you did not invite into your life.

Many men feel victimized by drama. They believe they have no choice but to accept it. Then they complain about it constantly...only to attract MORE drama.

It does not have to be this way.

The biggest reason we get drawn into drama is because we think we need to do something about it.

We think it's about us. And if it's about us then that means we're not okay.

And if we feel like we're not okay, then dammit, we need to fix whatever is causing the drama.

But here's the truth.

You ARE okay.

The drama is not about you. It's not caused by you. And it can't be fixed by you.

You ARE okay. And you don't need to engage.

Here's a quick video where I explain it better. I'm inviting you to a 7-Day Challenge to change how you respond to drama.

Freedom from DRAMA! (A 7-Day Challenge)

What does it mean to know you're okay?

It means that you know you are being a calm, clear-headed, conscious man.

It means that you know you are operating from values you've chosen and you have been stepping up in life according to your own standards.

When you know you are okay NOTHING rattles you. (think James Bond) You're grounded, curious and present. You respond to drama as if it was a pesky mosquito.

Drama no longer gets under your skin and influences your outlook or your mood.

And guess what that does to the energy of the drama queens and kings around you?

They respect you more. They calm down faster. And they learn to take their drama elsewhere.

This is what the 7-Day Challenge is about in the video. Go ahead - give it a shot and see what happens when you come from a place of being okay.

If you want a clearer description of what it's like to live like this guy, here's my latest article. It's a reprint from last year you may remember.

In here I give you 50 traits of a guy who lives without drama.

Why Acting Like a Happily Divorced Guy Could Save Your Marriage

What would it feel like to be this guy?

It might seem like an impossibility. But it's not - especially if you've got someone in your corner to help you every step of the way.

Here's your first step. Go HERE to apply for a consultation call.

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Lotta love, brother,

Steve

P.S. The doors are closed for the Confident Man Ranch Retreat happening next weekend. I'd love to see you at one of the next ones. Check those out here. 2017 Goodguys2Greatmen Retreat Schedule