So what's a guy to do?
He's got to develop some "range".
He's got to boldly enter the world of his heart. Scary stuff - I know.
I've been spending 4 days this weekend doing "heart stuff" at a training intensive for coaches. It's edgy stuff. But we either grow or we shrink.
You'd think the coaching business was all about tactics, strategies and methods. Nope.
That's thinking from the head.
My coach likes to say, "You'll never take any client deeper than you've
been willing to take yourself."
Likewise, you'll never take a woman deeper into matters of her heart than you've taken yourself.
Even more importantly, you'll never feel truly calm, confident and relaxed until you build your heart
muscle.
When it come to relationships our triggers like fear, rage, jealousy and neediness all come from an under-developed heart muscle.
And I don't want any man to live with that stuff. I remember all too well how incredibly crappy it feels to live
that way.
That's why I invite you to join an incredible community of men who are making huge changes in their life.
Some of their feedback comes from the women in their life...like this email I got last week:
"I want to thank you Steve. I've been dating 1 of the men in your group since the end of September and...wow. He's focused on growing as a person-so am I, he's understanding-so am I, he cares about honest communication even when it's uncomfortable-so do I. His actions match his words and I feel safe (no small thing). I know that he appreciates you and so do I! Sincerely, a 40 year old woman who is beyond grateful to be learning how to trust a man for the 1st
time...and enjoying the process...in every way."
How would you like to learn how to create a relationship with a woman who is "beyond grateful"?
It's simple but you must act.
Or take the route of joining other men at an upcoming retreats.
Whatever you do - do something.
Here's the information page for our amazing Confident Man Ranch Retreat at the end of the month. This one will blow your
mind.
