Hey,
I believe how well we push our sexual edge is a direct reflection of how well we are living our
life.
What's a sexual edge?
It's that part of our sensual and sexual nature where we feel the most alive, driven and creative. We know we're on the edge when we feel
inspired - not anxious. We're pulsing with intense desire and ambition. We feel focused and directed with no patience for distractions.
A man who is living powerfully and unapologetically on his sexual edge is proactively "penetrating" all aspects of his life with clarity and
intention.
He is a man of DESIRE. Not just desire for sex but desire for the intensity of a life well lived.
As David Deida describes in The Way of the Superior Man, our
sexual edge serves much more than just sex. We must learn to push our sexual edge so we can consciously circulate the energy throughout our body...and our life.
"If you are like most men, sexual energy
tends to go directly to one of two places. Either your head becomes stimulated and you fantasize about being with a woman who turns you on, or your genitals become stimulated in lustful need. Your head and genitals, however, are just the north and south poles of the whole body. A superior man circulates the energy of arousal throughout his body, taking particular care not to let it stagnate in swollen fantasies or appendages."
If you feel like you've been losing your sexual edge it's absolutely critical you learn how to get it back.
I know how it feels to lose the edge.
I felt tired, lazy, unfocused and unsettled. I was quick to anger, blame and resentment. I would feel like I was settling for a life I didn't really want to live but was too distracted to focus on living better.
Too much TV. Too much porn. Too much masturbation. Too much drinking. And no connection with anyone who was living differently.
No inspiration.
I woke up each day accepting whatever my relationship, my job and the world had to offer me.
I had no clue that it was
entirely possible for me to offer something totally different without needing permission to do so.
In other words, I could happen to the world instead of waiting for it to happen to me.
That's when I started turning my sexual edge toward personal development and learning how to consciously create new circumstances for myself. And that's when everything got better.
I got more clarity, more confidence, more money, more depth in my relationships, more intimacy and more
sex.
"More of everything!", I like to say,
My mission now is to teach you how to push your edge and get the same results.
Whether you're single, dating, married or divorced you're probably not pushing your edge as hard as you need to.
You may be playing a little small and trying not to rock the boat.
You may be afraid of the reactions of others if you step up your game. You may be worried what they will think if you start talking about the things you want. And you might ask "Who the hell am I at this point to be so bold as to voice my desires and start creating what I want?"
You're YOU, that's who. You deserve to live the life you want. And, trust me, there are people in your life who would be thrilled to see you go for it.
And remember, you've only got one chance. This ain't no dress rehearsal.
Here's a video about pushing your edge. I took a hike to find the right spot for this
one.
