The Massive Turn Off Women Feel (and we don't even know it)

Published: Sun, 03/05/17

Hey,

Have you ever heard a woman say, "Can't you hear how you're talking to me?"

How about, "I hate the way you make me feel!"

Yeah, me too.

And I didn't get it.  It sounded like crazy talk.  It pissed me off that her unhappiness was always my fault.

Finally...relief.  After 28 yrs. I got divorced and I got to spend more time with my horse.

This is when I began connecting the dots between horses and women.

I'm not saying I think everything was my fault - it certainly wasn't. But my horse has helped me see a few things much more clearly.

There's a reason why many young girls and women are so magnetically drawn to horses.  They speak a similar language and they get each other.  

They also have similar tendencies to seek safety and to react to the slightest negative pressure

I explain this a little more in this video.
I believe you and I have an untapped super power.

We have the power to create a new reality by simply changing who we are being.  This power is independent from what anyone else is thinking or doing.

We can't wait for anyone else to create the life we want.

If we want more connection - we must become more connected.  

If we want more respect - we must become more respectable.  

If we want more openness - we must become fearlessly vulnerable.  

And if we want more affection and sex - we must become unapologetically affectionate and sexual.

A client told me recently that he's had to start turning down sex!  

I know. It sounds unbelievable, but it's true.  He chose to learn how to LEAD.

But he didn't lead his wife.  He led his own thoughts, emotions and behavior.

He figured out how to create a new environment and now he goes through each day with a big grin on his face.  His business is booming, his friendships are stronger and his sex life is sizzling. 

It's a true story.  When you stop reacting to others and learn how to confidently lead yourself...everything in your life gets better...almost immediately.

When I learned this stuff it felt like a 2x4 smacked me right in the head.  And that's what it will feel like for you - in a good way.

It's a topic we'll be covering in depth at the Confident Leader Ranch Retreat coming up on April 27, 2017.

I know I've been sending you a bunch of emails about this.

I'm so stoked about this retreat I can't help myself.  It's not just the incredible location, scenery, horses, fun and relaxation.

It's about the incredible breakthroughs we make when men team up and work together.  

It's about feeling heard and understood maybe for the first time ever.

It's about that calm, confident, peaceful feeling we get when we see the truth about our masculine power and ability to live what we dream.

And it's about creating new connections and a support network most men don't have before they die.

I've spent a lot of time in nursing homes (both my parents have died in them) and I've seen way too many 90 yr. old men sitting all alone in their wheel chair in the corner pissing their pants.  They're angry and isolated.  And they watch while the old ladies make friends, play games and support each other.

I've decided this will not happen to me.  

Now you know why I've been bugging you.  I want to meet you, connect with you and build a life-long relationship with you.  And I want you to want that with other men too.

I've extended the deadline for the "Man of Action" pricing for the retreat until March 10th to give fence sitters one more chance to lock in the lower rate.

We've already got guys coming in from places like Phoenix and Fargo,  You need to meet these guys.  And they need to meet you.

Next step?

Click on this link to read more about the retreat and to register.


Feel free to email me or call me directly with any questions you might have.

Don't miss out.  


Lotta love, brother,
Steve

P.S.  If you're going to marriage counseling - or thinking about it - you need to read my latest article published the week.  The story of "Brian" in this article is a good example of what I'm talking about.  Click HERE to read more.