Why Nice Guy Husbands Get No Lovin'

Published: Sun, 02/05/17

Hey,

Here's a story that might be a little uncomfortable to read

It's about a guy I met 4 years ago who was banging his head against the wall in his marriage. His wife had totally pulled away from him and his sex life was non-existent.  More and more frequently she was being dismissive and disrespectful toward him.

He was furious.

And he was hyper-focused on one thing.

The sex.

He was determined to fix this problem no matter what. 

When I asked him how he had been doing on his mission. Here's what he said.
 
I give her so much! I work 70 hours a week and make great money. She can buy anything she wants and she knows it. She’s not a great cook, so I’ve been doing all the cooking for breakfast and dinner.  I also do all the shopping because I pass by the store anyway on the way home. I also do all the laundry and most of the housecleaning. I have higher standards than she does, so it’s easier just to do it myself. She stays home with the two little ones and spends most of her time on Facebook from what I can tell. Recently I’ve started bringing home flowers for her to get her attention. And last night I brought home some rose petals and candles and drew a hot bath for her and decorated the tub. After she was in the tub and I was walking out, waiting for a thank-you, she said, ‘You know, you really shouldn’t try so hard.’

That just pissed him off and he asked me, “How much more do I need to do to get some affection from her?” I told him, “Less. Much less."

The sad thing in this story is that it's not isolated.

Most of us can remember times when we jumped through hoops like crazy trying to please a woman just so she'll LIKE us.

It's like trying to solve a Rubik's Cube puzzle.  We keep trying new things to crack the code of getting her attention, approval and affection.

In my latest article, I dive into this problem and talk about the solution. Click on the link below to read more.


I also shot this quick video to explain the KEY REASON why nice guys get no loving and why doing LESS instead of MORE is so important.
If you have anything in common with the guy in the story, you may be feeling anxious and frustrated at this moment.

I know exactly how that feels and I remember how helpless I felt having the same old arguments and fights.

It wasn't until a few wise men took me under their wing and taught me secrets no man ever told me. These are secrets about what women really want.

And even more importantly, they are secrets about how to be a man who doesn't beg, plead or bargain for affection or sex.  It's the most liberating and life-changing place to be in life.

I want to help you get that sooner than later. 

Click here to schedule a one-on-one conversation with me.

Let's get you back on track and into the skin of the man you want to be.

Everything else gets easy from there.


Lotta love,

Steve

P.S. Just a heads up, I'll be drunk on a beach in Florida starting Saturday though Tuesday.  If I don't answer an email, you'll know why.