Do you ever wonder what she really wants when she
says:
"I just want to feel like I can relax." or...
"I just want to feel like I can count on you." or...
"All you think about is sex."
These are 3 of the most common complaints men tell me they hear.
They're are not as straight-forward as they appear. It's easy to take them personally and think she's trying to make this all about you and what you're not doing.
It can cause you to react in anger as you
defend yourself and retaliate with another argument.
Don't do that. This is more about her than you. It's about her burning desire to feel something deeper.
And if you understand that desire and why she needs it, you'll find out that helping her to feel that is quite simple.
And when you become confident in doing this for her, you're going to have a lot of fun with
it.
Why?
Because a relaxed, happy, silly, giddy, sexy, flirty woman is a lot of fun to have around...isn't it?
Read more about it here and let me break it down for you.
The hardest thing about learning this stuff and
becoming confident with it is our ego. We don't want to admit that maybe we don't have it all figured out.
We want to feel appreciated now for our efforts and for trying so hard to please her.
And there's the problem.
Most of us try much to hard. We keep jumping through imaginary hoops to please her and avoiding land mines that will piss her off.
The simple secret to your success is to stop both of those now. It only makes matters worse.
What should you start doing?
You should start operating to
YOUR agenda for creating the relaxed, happy, silly, giddy, sexy, flirty environment you want.
Yes, I know that's what you want. That's what we all want.
And you can have
it if you want it badly enough. I can show you how.
Click here to schedule a conversation with me about creating what you want. If nothing changes in you, nothing will change.
If you decide now to
change something in you, I guarantee you something will change in your relationship.
