Why Divorced Dudes Have Hotter Dates (and so can you)

Published: Sun, 12/25/16

Hey,

Yes.  Even if you're married you can learn from the mistakes and lessons learned from divorced guys.

You can have warmer evenings, spicier conversations and hotter sex...just like the dozens of divorced guys I know are having.

How, you say?

Easy.  Starting acting like a happily divorced guy right now!  (use that link to learn more about that...but not now...keep reading)

This may sound harsh or even alarming to a man wanting to stay married, but trust me.

The biggest risk your relationship you will ever have is you playing it small. 

By trying hard to keep the peace, not rock the boat and keep momma happy you are sabotaging the respect, trust and attraction needed to turn things around for you.

This is why I want you to understand HOW to be more like a happily divorced man.

These guys know how to have fun.  They are detached from outcomes.  They flirt.  They are confident.  They create amazing conversations.  They goof off.

They maintain solid friendships and don't take shit personally.  And they have boundaries - they know when to defend them and how to stand up for what they expect.

Now who wouldn't want to be THAT guy?  And what woman wouldn't be more respectful, trusting and attracted to that guy?

The reason all of my clients who end up divorced have incredibly fun and hot dates is because they have learned a valuable life lesson - the hard way.

They could have been the guy in their marriage they are now...but they didn't know it.  

They were afraid to actually live the life they wanted and BE the man they wanted to be.

Fear can cripple you into paralysis.  You change nothing.  Do nothing.  And then you wonder why you got no respect, no trust and no attraction.

Mr. Experience talking here.  And I've got lots of client data too.

You don't have to wait until you're divorced to learn the lesson!

You don't have to wait to see your slimy guts oozing across the kitchen floor to reach out for help and start learning your lessons NOW.

But most guys do.  They WAIT for something to change.  They WAIT for HER to do something different.

Most guys don't find the motivation or courage to ask for help until they see the hemorrhaging and then they slip and fall into a pool of their own blood.

Don't be that guy. 

Here's a quick video about what will happen for you when you decide to ask for help.
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And here's an article for you about a guy who wasn't able to keep his wife from divorcing him, but things are turning out just fine for him anyway. Really fine.


The whole point is that no matter what the outcome of your relationship, you must start learning the lessons of the happily divorced man now.  

These lessons are actually more important to you than the outcome of your marriage.

It's the only thing you can control - your energy - your responses - and your choices.

It's takes an element of faith.

If you want the kind of life that evolved, happily divorced men have, you must become the kind of man who gets that life.

You will never have certainty about outcomes.  But you can create certainty in who you are being and how you respond to those outcomes.

You can create new circumstances for yourself!

And that's the best certainty of all.

Sales pitch time.

I want to help you create this certainty for yourself.  

And I have my wicked ways of teaching you this that nobody else can do.

Confident?  Yes, I am.  And I will reveal my secrets during a phone call that YOU need to ask for.

Think of it as the Christmas/Hanukkah/Kwanzaa gift that only you can give.

Yes.  "Real men" ask for help...and directions.

Don't make any more stupid "resolutions".  Make a commitment to yourself instead.

Click here to schedule a conversation with me. 

Lotta love,

Steve
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