This is an amazing story you may not be able to relate to
yet.
I remember - not very long ago - when the very idea of turning down an offer for sex was stupidly ridiculous to me.
I mean, I spent decade after decade waiting and
wondering when my next "fix" was coming. I would initiate, get rejected, play it cool, complain, pursue and back off again until the planets aligned and she gave in.
It was a constant game for me - a game I despised and resented with every fiber of my being. I didn't know the "rules".
I hated feeling like a basic need was being deprived and I hated the way I felt begging for it?
I felt like the big buck I saw the other day. It's the season of rut here in the mountains. This is
when the male mule deer and elk start their biologically programmed process of hooking up with females and making babies.
This enormous, beautiful, studly male was chasing 8 different females around the field. None of them was interested and rejected his advances every time.
But, unlike my old self, he didn't seem the least bit upset. He just went back to grazing - doing his own thing.
Eventually, one of the females came toward him. She presented herself to him - he accepted her
offer - and the rest is history. Spotted babies will be dropping in the spring.
It was when he stopped chasing that he became interesting to her. He was safe enough to approach and she surrendered.
Here's a real story about a man I know who had the same thing happen.
The process is a little different for humans, but the point is the same.
When you become 100% good with yourself, you become interesting again.
Safe again. Sexy again.
Read about the story of
"Brian" and "Emily" here.
The names have been changed to protect the innocent.
And in the video below, I talk a little bit more about HOW Brian was able to accomplish
this.
