QUIZ: Are You a Sex-Starved Overly Apologetic Man?

Published: Sun, 11/27/16

Hey,

I’ve been working lately on creating material for a theme called “The Unapologetic Man”.

You’re going to like it and I’ll keep you posted on the new content and possibly a webinar.

But…this email is about the OPPOSITE of being an “unapologetic man”.

It’s about men who apologize too much.

And, worst of all, they apologize for being a man with deep thoughts, feelings and desires.

The “overly apologetic man” also thinks he’s being a really “good guy” by instantly accepting blame for every little thing in his relationship. 

His hair-trigger apologies are part of a defense mechanism he's created to get attention.

He also uses apologies to manipulate his woman into paying attention to him, or feeling bad for him, or to make her feel bad for making him feel bad about himself.

How do I know about this guy?  I was that guy.

"I'm sorry if I just want a little intimacy."
"I'm sorry I made you upset by asking you what's wrong."
"I'm sorry that you're mad at me for just wanting to talk about this."

When I was that guy, I was 100% guaranteed to feel even more unattractive, more angry and more frustrated.  And the results in the sex and romance department were proof positive.

Overly apologizing from a place of fear and defensiveness will always bring you less of everything you want.

Here’s the quiz.

If you answer “Yes” to at least 4 of these, you just might be a “Sex-Starved Overly Apologetic Man”
  • Apologize for her being mad
  • Apologize if she is upset about anything
  • Apologize for her bad news
  • Apologize for working late
  • Apologize for wanting sex
  • Apologize for being attracted to her
  • Apologize for just wanting to help her
  • Apologize for being a man
  • Apologize for spending time with your friends
  • Apologize for wanting affection
  • Apologize for not being able to read and listen to her at the same time
  • Apologize for touching or kissing her
  • Apologize for waking up with a raging erection
  • Apologize for not reading her mind
  • Apologize for not knowing what is bothering her
Here's a quick video I made to help you think about this issue a little more.
  Are You a Sex-Starved Overly Apologetic Man?
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I also wrote a new article on this topic titled:


In this 30-Day Challenge, I want you to feel the incredible power of liberation.

You will be liberated from searching for her approval, empathy or apology.

When a man stops being overly apologetic, he frees himself from the shame of feeling like he is inadequate or undeserving.

This is a key part of becoming a confident, powerful and self-reliant man.

It's exactly what happens to men in my 90-Day Masculine Confidence Intensive.  Their stories of redemption and empowerment inspire me.  In this program we will develop your 3-Year Plan and make it happen. 

One client told me today, "If I knew almost everything I wanted would happen inside 2 years I would have dreamed a little bigger!"

True story.  Happens all the time.

Click here to make the first step (one of many baby steps) to making your plan come true much sooner than later.

Lotta love,

Steve

P.S.  If you missed this killer podcast I did last week, the links are below. Learn why self-reliance and self-confidence are the most important skills for every relationship you'll ever have.


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