Hey,
I've got my head in a toilet at the moment, but wanted to stop long enough to send you this important reminder.
I'm getting ready for the 24-Hour Mountain Men's Retreat here at my little Ranch and I am the CTCO - Chief Toilet Cleaning Officer.
I run these retreats solo so I've got to have all the bases covered. Food, retreat agenda, sleeping arrangements, laundry, beer, chainsaw (don't ask)...and toilets.
Sometimes it feels like I've got too many
balls in the air. Nothing is getting done. A little anxious and hurried.
It's a time when my mojo can be challenged. But once it all comes together and I look back, I feel calm again. I conquered it, dammit.
Just keeping focused, taking action and knocking things off the to-do list actually makes me feel stronger. More in control. More confident in myself.
Being frazzled and overwhelmed can make ANY guy lose his mojo and start feeling more like
a kid than the man he really is.
This happens all the time for men. We tend to keep our manly shit together much better at work. But when we get home, we lose focus and will-power and can turn into a little prick...someone that WE don't even like much.
What's the solution?
Action. Simple action.
As I tell clients, action is momentum in a
direction you've chosen - for now anyway. And without momentum you can't steer!
It's like being in sailboat with no wind. No wind. No movement. No steering.
No
progress. Just stuck.
That's my tip for you today and the coming weekend.
Make a short list of the thing YOU want to get done. Pick
the ones that mean the most to you. Cross off all others.
Then do it. Whatever it takes. Complete something.
You'll feel better. More manly. More
in control. More confident.
I promise.
And when you get to that place in your mojo, you will respond to EVERYTHING better. Calmer. More relaxed and pleased with
yourself.
And you won't look or feel like a politician in the middle of a debate acting like a 4th grader. We've all been there and it sucks, doesn't it?
I wrote this article for you about 4 Lessons we can learn from politicians about what NOT to do in your relationship.
When we see ourselves acting like a politician, we can bet our mojo has plummeted to an all time low.
If you've been feeling like you can't get a handle on your manly
mojo or don't feel like you're in control of your own boat, I want to help you.
You are NOT ALONE, brother. For many, many reasons men like you and I can feel like we just don't know what to do next.
We can't make anyone happy.
We find ourselves in stupid arguments and toxic fights.
We find ourselves on the living room couch...and actually starting to LIKE it there.
That is no way to live. Let me help you and introduce to a new way of thinking and BEING as a man.
Then I want to introduce you to a community of men who are well on their way and are anxious to meet you and lend you a hand.
If that sounds good to you, just hit REPLY and tell me you want to schedule a call
with me.
That simple step is ACTION.
Action gets your boat moving.
And you will instantly feel better about yourself.
Or you can click the link below to tell me
more about what you want and what's holding you back.
Talk
soon.
Lotta love, brother,
Steve
