Hey,

There are THREE very basic mistakes men make that will close down her "affection factory"...sometimes for good!

I've made every one of them.

When you read the article below, you'll see that while these are "basic", they require a deep level of understanding and commitment to change them.  Nobody ever said living with a woman was going to be easy.  Here's the article:

"How to Warm Up Your Unaffectionate Wife - Part I"

I talk more about these mistakes in this video as well. Click on that if you want the audio visual version.

In the article I talk about these 3 mistakes:

1.  Faking Your Affection:  Which means either doubting your love for her even when you're being affectionate OR giving affection with hidden expectations.

2.  Intellectual Warfare:  This is a style of talking or arguing that always ends one of two ways - she feels stupid or she thinks you think she's stupid.

3.  Interrogation:  This is about the fearful, insecure energy of asking too many questions just to make you feel better about you.

These are the mistakes I made for years and I know a lot of other guys do too.  We actually have the strength and self-awareness to just stop doing this stuff.  I know it's hard, but I also know you don't like as much as she doesn't like it.

Am I right?

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Lotta love, brother,

Steve

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