He needs people who inspire him. Drive him. Encourage him. And push him to be
better.
Why don't married men do this?
Because some of us, myself included, are too busy FOLLOWING.
It wasn't until after my divorce I discovered the joy in marching to my own drum. Following my own lead. Dreaming bigger than ever. Setting my own priorities and putting myself first.
I found the enormous value of discontinuing friendships that were holding me back and creating new ones that ignited and inspired me. Many of those new friendships were forged with other men. I found them where quality men gather.
The whole point of my "happily divorced man" theme is to
help you see - married or not - that you can start making better choices for yourself. You can stop following the expectations of others and start putting yourself and your goals first.
You can stop living in someone else's dream and start making decisions that actually serve YOU and your dream.
And here's the kicker. You can do this and not be an asshole.
You can do this and still give the people you love all the respect, empathy and love they
deserve.
A "happily divorced man" learns how to care deeply about the thoughts, feelings and dreams of those he cares for...but...
A "happily divorced
man" also learns how to not give a flip what others think about him - his values - his goals and his dreams.
He can't. If he does he will sabotage himself and the life he wants to create.
He will constantly follow the agenda of others. He will live in their frame of thinking, feeling and dreaming. He will feel trapped. And he will never be able to find and live his true purpose.
HOW do you actually do this and not feel like you're going crazy
?
You do it by reaching out for help from men who have figured out the path.
If you feel like you've been following others too long and you're living someone else's dream - read
about the process of working with me HERE.
If you feel like you're trapped because you're not clear on your purpose and how to start
living more boldly then schedule a call with me right now. Go HERE to give me your info and set up a free, but powerful conversation.
And if you REALLY want to take action toward permanently changing the course you're on, you need to be at my Masculine Confidence Intensive retreat on Saturday, April 30th, 2016. It's located at my piece of paradise 2 hours north of Denver, CO.
This is where high
quality men gather. Hit reply to this email to request registration information. The deadline for registration is April 26th - so I can buy enough groceries. We need you here.
Lotta love, brother,
Steve
