It's the act of making a decision to use the pain of his unhappy marriage or his divorce to choose a new road...to change for the better.
Oddly, but consistently true... pain and guilt can be tremendous motivators for certain types of men who make massive breakthroughs in their mindset and their life. When this type of man finally says, "Screw it, I'm not going to make those mistakes again." he is
on the way to being an extraordinary man.
Sometimes he achieves this inside his marriage and creates a whole new relationship. And sometimes he launches his new brand of mojo and personal success after his divorce.
It's possible with both guys. You know my story - I am the second
guy.
What I want for you is the feeling that you are on an extraordinary path in your life whether or not you stay in your marriage. I want you to put yourself first for a change and then see what happens.
I want you to learn that until you decide how you will make your self-expectations and your dreams a priority, you will always be following someone else's.
And that is no way for you to run your life. I have a feeling you know this already.
Lotta love,
brother,
Steve
P.S. I've got a maximum of ten extraordinary men coming to the April 30th retreat this month at my place in Livermore, CO. This how you get on your extraordinary path and stay there. It will be a powerful (and fun) day. More here: 
