Hey,
A lot of men think
they know what women really want.
Some believe it's someone tall, dark, rich and macho.
Some guys think it's the "bad boy" who treats women poorly and doesn't give a crap about
her.
Other guys think women have an unattainable romantic ideal of a man who looks, smells and acts perfectly toward her all the time.
I don't claim to claim to know what all women want.
They are all very unique and fascinating in the different ways they feel attraction and desire. My own girlfriend surprised me with a strange attraction to sawdust and pine sap on my face.
While it's hard to predict exactly what catches a woman's eye or arouses her desire, there is one thing most women universally love about a
man.
I can safely say your woman will love this about you.
What is it?
It's so easy for us (man, do I know this) to skate from one day to the next
without a plan. Procrastination and laziness creep up on us. We start waiting until we're nagged enough to get shit done. Then we start expecting to be be given hoops to jump though to keep her happy.
The worst possible conclusion is that we start to resign ourselves to this way of life. We
wait to be told what's important - what's a priority - and what needs to get done today.
And then we have the balls to complain that she is controlling. Nagging. Never happy.
It doesn't matter if you're just dating
or married for 25 years, what will attract her most is simply having your own plan.
Decide what hoops YOU are going to jump through. Then jump through them without fail. Not because she wants you to - but because YOU want to.
I talk more about this simple, but critical, phenomena in the video below.
I
also wrote about it in a new article just published on the Good Men Project.
I'd
like to know what you think about jumping through hoops. What is holding you back from choosing your own? What reactions are you afraid of? Hit reply or speak up in the comments under the article.
If you want more help in being a man with a plan, consider answering a few questions HERE and set up a free discovery call with me.
I guarantee you will get something out of this call you will use tomorrow. You WILL get the attention of that certain woman who is on your mind right now.
