I'm putting in plain English at the bottom of this email in GREEN.
I know that most of us guys don't trust easily. We don't believe in a product or service quickly and we often don't trust ourselves to get our ass in gear to do work on our own stuff.
And we don't want to spend money on anything that doesn't have clear benefit - it must actually FILL A BURNING NEED we want filled.
Sometimes I joke about how we sometimes think if only sex was
better everything would be okay. If that was true, a guy could take a few thousand bucks to Vegas and buy all the sex he wanted and the problem would be solved. Right?
Wrong. Why?
Because investing in relieving a SYMPTOM is a always bad investment. Deep down we know it. It does nothing to address the ROOT CAUSE of the problem.
And sex isn't really the bottom line need we're trying to fill anyway. Feeling connected, respected, appreciated, supported, loved and desired by the woman of your choice is your ultimate need. And you know sex comes easily for BOTH OF YOU when those feelings are present.
That's what I help you figure out - the root cause.
Who is the man you are BEING when your needs are being met? And HOW does this man effortlessly meet HER needs at the same time?
Here's my offer to any man who hasn't already yet found the courage to reach out for some brotherly love, guidance and support.
1. Apply for a free mentoring call with
me before midnight, December 31, 2015.
2. If you want to continue with the coaching experience after that, we'll schedule your first two calls, your reading assignments and your homework. ($600 value at no charge)
3. At the end of our first month, YOU decide if it was one of the most powerful and meaningful experiences you've ever had...or not.
4. If so, you will pay for your first and next month and we'll
keep making magic.
5. If not, just say, "It's not really what I want." There is no charge and no hard feelings. I'll be glad to have met you and learned something through knowing you.
Why am I making this offer? Am I desperate for clients?
No. In fact, I'm close to closing down taking new clients for the
first quarter of 2016.
The reason I'm making this offer is simply because I know how friggin' HARD it is for me and all men to MAKE A DECISION without good data. We are risk averse and tend to play it safe. (This is also
something we do horribly wrong with women, by the way.)
My gift to you is the gift of certainty. No risk. No tough decision.
You would be silly to say "No" if you've been thinking about it but haven't pulled the trigger.
"I love this time of year because I love seeing so many signs out and about saying things like “Peace” and “Joy”. These are words that most of us don’t use — even though deep down they point to what we’re all wanting more than anything
else.
For many these words just blend into the other superficial decorations of the season — like a drunk fat guy in a red suit holding a sign saying “Huge Sale!”.
But what other time of year would it be socially acceptable to put a big flashing sign in your yard that says “Joy”?
This reveals a mindset that’s easy to slip
into…
“I strive and bust ass all year and then hopefully find a little peace and joy at the end.”
In other words - Peace and Joy are a place to get to. They’re only acceptable at certain times like Christmas, or retirement, or once all of the other stuff is done (which is never).
But here comes the new year! A new you! A new race! And a collective surge to create
a huge big list of stuff to change and achieve.
”Peace and joy? Not yet. I gotta get all of this stuff done first.”
Along with the excitement and hope for the new year is the anxiety that comes from trying to carry 15 gallons in a 10 gallon bucket. And after a few months (days?) many of us are exhausted, frustrated, and turning the blade on ourselves for coming up
short.
No Joy. No Peace.
So here’s a reminder to myself that I’ll share with you:
Joy and Peace are not a place to “strive for”. They’re not on the other side of a fiscal year, completed to-do list, ideal body fat percentage, or a fat bank account (even though those things are nice).
Joy and Peace are to be cultivated. They
are the place to come from instead of get to. They are the foundation for creating our best lives. It just takes practice.
There’s no need to deprive ourselves of joy and peace today. There’s no need to motivate ourselves through fear, disgust, scarcity, or shame. Keep an eye out for the collective urge to place peace and joy beyond a “finish line” that will rob you of that experience today.
I
hope that you and the ones you love have a wonderful holiday season."
Much love and gratitude,
Tripp
