My Well Deserved Butt Kicking This Week [VIDEO]

Published: Sun, 10/25/15

Hey,


I got a lesson this week in humility.


I had to listen to some feedback from other men and decide if I was going to do anything about it.


They kind of kicked my butt – in the most brotherly way.


And I needed it.


This video is a “do over” from last week because I didn't give what I wanted to give.  I didn’t share what I really wanted to share and my point seemed unclear to some of you.


My message was muddy and some guys felt cheated that I didn’t deliver the meat they were looking for.


The bottom line of my message is that there is no single, magic piece of advice that will make you take inspired action in your life and begin creating exactly what you want.


My own coach taught me this again this week when he had to kick my butt into gear.  He caught me getting paralyzed by my own rationalization for not taking action on something.  I explain that more in the video.


He saw things I couldn’t see.  And he called me out.


All of us need this and we need it from OTHER MEN.


We’re doomed to stay in stuck right where we are if we don’t allow other men into our lives and call us out on our B.S.


We’re doomed if we don’t allow them to hold us accountable for action.


Your first action today is to FIND OTHER MEN in your life to keep this discussion moving.


Tell them what you want and why you're afraid to go after it.  Let them kick your butt.


The only thing at stake is the future of your relationship and the future of your life.


Lots of love to you, brother,

Steve


P.S.  My last article about John and Jane's marriage problems is HERE.  In this article, I bring up ACCOUNTABILITY as the key ingredient to change.  Read the article and make comments if you feel like it.  I'd loved to hear your thoughts.

  My Well Deserved Butt Kicking This Week
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