Hey,
Can you relate to this annoying, frustrating feeling?
It's that feeling of being frozen in your tracks...your mind is locked up and you're being attacked mentally and
emotionally.
The attacker?
Yeah, you know who.
She's frustrated and stressed out. Something has her pissed off. And YOU are the closest, easiest
target.
This article by Roger Nix is EXCELLENT and I encourage you to read it. It speaks directly to us men who are working on standing up
to and WITH strong feminine energy.
He talks about how we might deal with our anxiety in unhealthy ways. Here's a sample:
"When you reflect on your childhood you may notice that you received precious little training in these life skills. Instead, you probably picked up some unhealthy anxiety-management behaviors that worked at the time.
Here are a few common ones:
- checking out with video games, porn, TV, work, etc.
- acting small and quiet
- relying on alcohol, drugs, food, and/or sex
- staying very busy or very isolated
- trying to be perfect and do everything “right”
- being overly nice and friendly;
caretaking"
Do you ever get confused about how to respond in the face of feminine passion, stress or anger? Do you feel like your only options are to give an equal and opposite reaction or to just disappear.
Both are bad options. Unhealthy. Destructive too.
They are bad for YOU, bad for HER, and bad for your RELATIONSHIP.
We can do better. And when we choose to do better, it's a game changer like you've never seen or imagined!
Would you like to talk more about this topic? Just hit reply and ask me anything about
your situation.
You're not alone. Promise. ;^)
Lots of love to you,
Steve
