You may not believe it, but this guy is talking about his totally checked out, soon-to-be-ex-wife.
Here’s the brief story of “Brian” who was planning for a divorce a few months ago.
He is about halfway through my 12-week program and sent this update a couple of days
ago. He said he would be honored if I shared it with you.
I couldn’t make this stuff up if I had to. Good thing I don’t have to.
His wife, “Jennifer”, has been living in an apartment away from the family home. Jennifer was unsure if she could ever move back home. She just “didn’t know why”. She’s had a hard time explaining her feelings and her anxiety. She wants to feel more trust, connection and emotional safety. Neither she nor Brian were sure if that would ever happen again.
Brian’s email started with, “Wow, this has been quite the week!”
“Right after you and I talked on Monday, we had our counseling session and it went really well. What was interesting is that from the
moment we walked in it was different. Not only did I come in with a different perspective but our counselor did as well. The great thing about it was that my approach and attitude was completely different than when we started counseling. “
“Over the last couple of sessions I have felt
completely different. In fact, walking into this one and during this session I had a calm sense about me. I didn’t even realize I was doing it, but the counselor pointed out that I was sitting up on the edge of the couch and leaning forward - I seemed determined. He said I seemed to be focused and very engaged.”
“Then came quite the surprise. Jennifer came over to make dinner for everyone the next night and after dinner asked if I wanted to hang out and watch TV. Then all of the sudden while we were watching she started to touch me and being really playful. We played around a bit and things kept getting hotter and hotter and we ended up having a great night. Then last night she was over again and this time she was even more aggressive and we
ended up having a great night again.”
“I know that this doesn’t mean that we are all of the sudden going to move back in together and I understand that she and I still have a lot of work to do. However, after not having any physical intimacy for a year, then when I start making the changes that you
have helped me with, and I start becoming the man I was meant to be… all of the sudden she starts opening up physically.”
“I know it’s not a coincidence and I am excited about the future. I am excited about being the man that can protect her - that can comfort her and bring out the best in
her.”
“I am also excited about being the man that can recognize what I want and what my future holds. I’m strong enough to recognize that if Jennifer doesn’t want to accept what I have to offer then that’s okay. I will still love her and respect her but will move on and find a woman who wants to
accept my gifts.”
“The future looks good, my friend.”
That last line? About his
future?
This is all I want for EVERY man I know. It’s a peaceful, easy feeling (don't you just love Eagles songs) of confidence that no matter what happens, you will be fine.
It’s a clear-headed and courageous feeling of “I got this”.
This feeling has nothing to do with winning the physical affections of women. Hell, if THAT was our measure of success, I’d be a pickup artist coach. But that
stuff is too easy. Too shallow. And totally unrewarding.
Brian has
figured this out. It is his epiphany. He has figured out the TRUTH about what a man needs to do to be happy and feel strong about his relationship and his future.
Apparently, Jennifer has taken a new interest in that man.
I hope you enjoyed his story.
Tons of love to ya,
Steve
P.S. I share these stories so you can see that this work isn’t some “airy fairy, mumbo jumbo, new age crap”. It’s about getting real about who you want to be and where you expect to end up in your life and relationships. It’s not for
every man because it requires an open mind, willingness to work, ability to focus and a desire to make changes for only ONE person – you. Hit reply and request your 1-hour consultation to see if you’re ready to start feeling more like Brian. Or just ask me any question you have. I’ll answer personally – usually within the same day.
