Hey,
At first she says, "I'm just not attracted to you anymore."
But what happens when YOU reach the same point?
Here's how the typical story goes.
Watch out. This might sting a little (Steve says from experience).
About a year ago you find out your marriage is worse
than you thought.
It's worse than just cold shoulders, arguments and nights on the couch.
Then you find our there is another relationship that doesn't involve you.
You talk about it. You cry about it. You fight about it. You decide to try
to "work on things" by yourself.
Months go by. You try your best. Her? Not so much.
You still want to save it. But one thing is really bugging you. You haven't felt this way before and it's scary and confusing.
You don't like her anymore.
She is thoroughly unattractive to you.
Some days she DISGUSTS you.
You're now
feeling what SHE has been feeling.
And she sees it in you.
You don't fight anymore. You speak calmly and with more confidence than you've had in a LONG time.
You may still want her - but every fiber of your being KNOWS you don't NEED
her.
Then it happens.
You didn't see it coming and you're not ready for it.
She asks you the question you asked her a year ago.
"I know I've screwed up, but can't we work on this? Don't you think we have something worth saving? Don't you still love me?"
And then you say, " your words here ".
If you're not sure what to
say, I can help you.
I help many, many men figure out EXACTLY how they feel at this stage and EXACTLY what they really want.
Then we make a clear plan to confidently do exactly what a man must do to have it.
Like I always
say, clarity is king.
I want to help you navigate that
trail.
Lots of
love,
Steve
