Hey, here's something I know.
You will never have a happy, satisfying, loving, and sexual relationship without a little faith. There, I said it.
In fact, a lack of faith is what causes most guys to keep doing the same old crap and getting the same old results. Let me explain.
Transforming yourself, your life, and your intimate relationship is a spiritual experience.
I’m talking about the soul shaking feelings of empowerment that happen to a man who has chosen to change his beliefs about himself and his power in the world.
How do you change your beliefs about yourself and your power to create what you want?
You must first choose to believe there is a new way to think about what’s going on in your life.
You must decide that the current state of your self-confidence and your unsatisfying relationship is not your destiny.
You must see the obvious truth in the old saying, “Insanity is doing
the same things over and over and expecting different results.”
The improvements in yourself and your relationship will come only when you have faith enough to stop doing the same old things and leap into a new perspective.
It’s call faith. A firm belief or complete trust in something for which there is no proof.
So, What are You Going to
Believe?
If you’re anything like me and most guys who have suffered in relationship hell, you tend to believe things like:
- She is just not an affectionate or sexual person and it will
never change
- I’ve done everything I can and she is just a cold, indifferent woman like her mother
- Other woman like me, so there’s nothing wrong with me
- I must be unattractive and unlovable
- I see the downward spiral right in front of me and can’t stop it
- It appears that intimacy for the rest of my life will be a reluctant kiss goodnight
There is a saying in car racing that goes, “Don’t ever look at the wall. If you look at the wall, you will
hit it every time.” Race car drivers have a deep faith in that perspective. They honor it and don’t question it. It is their truth. Their faith.
The same thing applies to you and the “wall” you’re looking at. Every time you think or say one of those statements above, you’re looking
right at the wall. And you slam into it every time. You need faith to keep looking down the track.
Looking Down the Track with Courage
Being able to look down the track of your life and your relationship takes courage.
Faith takes courage. You can’t be concerned about the outcome. You can’t be bothered by the
reactions of others. You can’t be swayed by what others might think about you.
Where do you get more courage?
You get it
from clarity. From an epiphany of truth. Clarity comes from a BFO – a Blinding Flash of the Obvious. It sounds like this.
- Without any doubt, I will lead the next 40 yrs. of my life with confidence and self-respect
- I will have a relationship founded on mutual trust, appreciation, respect, affection, and
passion
- I will learn how to meet the needs of my partner so she can feel safe and trusting in meeting mine
- I will not settle for an unhealthy, destructive relationship and will set boundaries with confidence and always from a place of love and respect
- In creating the relationship I want, I will consistently hold myself to higher standards of behavior and will be accountable in following through
- I deserve to be in a happy, supportive, loving, and sexual relationship because I am willing to be a partner who earns it
These are declarations of faith.
They are examples of operating principles which can by yours.
Can you see yourself with the clarity and courage to say these out loud?
These are what keep men from hitting the wall. Over and over again.
How Can I Help?
A guy doesn’t usually just start this process on his own. I didn’t.
If you want help with this – ask. Here’s another operating principle that happy men have.
“I will reach out to other men to help me create and sustain the changes I want to see in myself to allow me to create the life I want and achieve the goals I desire.”
Lucky you. That’s why I’m here.
I guide you through an empowering step-by-step process to become the confident man your wife will appreciate and desire again.
You will learn how to create the feelings of presence and connection she craves and why the tactics you’ve been trying are making things worse.
THIS is looking down the track.
This is NOT hitting the wall.
All you need is a little faith.
Schedule a powerful, emotional, and supportive call with me today. Take a leap of faith that new action WILL inspire new results.
Lot of love,
Steve
P.S. One of my favorite quotes: “Only TWO THINGS will change your life. Something new comes into it – or something new comes OUT OF YOU.” (Brendon Burchard)
