I see a very predictable and scary pattern in troubled relationships. I first noticed this at the end of my marriage.
I'm hoping you don't find out the same way I did.
We wait too long to
take action and then it's way too late.
In the meantime, here's what happens.
- You feel neglected
- She feels unheard
- You feel unappreciated
- She feels detached
- You get angry
- She gets quiet
- You decide things are good enough
- She is working on her departure
- You find out she's almost
gone
- She can't believe you stood there and did nothing
- Now you're ready to REALLY try and take action
Too late. She's gone. And she ain't coming back.
This can happen whether you stay together or get divorced. The ability to fix what is
broken is nearly impossible.
Trust is gone. Respect is gone. All that remains is fear, anger, and resentment.
And guess what?
There were VERY CLEAR SIGNS that this is exactly where you were headed TWO YEARS AGO! I know, she should have said something.
She thinks she did. Believe me,
she really thinks she did and said all she could do.
Two years ago was the time to start taking inspired action. That was the time to start reading and learning about yourself and women.
Two years ago was the time when she still
felt connection to you and your ability to set her heart on fire.
Two years ago was the time when all she needed was to FEEL a shift in the way you think about her and treat her.
Two years ago was the time she started noticing
other men and imagining how her life might be different.
Yes. She had the responsibility to step up too.
That's what every soon to be ex-wife tells me. They want your leadership when the chips are down.
Screw equality. Screw 50-50.
There is no substitute for being a man who doesn't wait for ANYONE to go first - to BE who he wants to be.
Your first step is asking for help. Getting a mentor. Holding yourself to a higher standard and being accountable.
Not for the faint of heart, but the only trip worth taking on the second half of your ride.
I want to speak with you man to man about what you want and how you're going to get it.
Grab a beer or coffee
and contact me to set up a free appointment now.
I won't pressure you to hire me. I don't care if you don't hire me. Just take action, brother.
Don't wait two years. That doesn't
work.
