Hey there,

I'm going to talk about this out in the open even if it kills me.

I'm talking about the how men TRULY think of women and how we FEEL their femininity.

This is OUR truth.  Each one of us has a unique and very personal description of how we experience a romantic and intimate relationship with a woman.  It's intense and irrepressible.

And many women can't handle it.  And it feels sad for us.

We want women to feel strong and proud about their femininity and how it rocks our world.

We want women to understand that "all we think about" is NOT sex - but mutual appreciation, trust, respect, and approval.  We want to feel a connection as much as women do.

We want women to understand that THEIR idea of being feminine rarely matches what we most enjoy in them.  It's not about clothes, make up, or shoes.  It goes much deeper than that.

It's all about how it feels.

To help women understand one male perspective (mine) on what these feelings are like, I've explained below what my stirs my senses in the presence of attractive femininity.

This is me.  Being vulnerable.  No apologies.

Coming soon is an article where I challenge a strong, proud woman to create her own list for attractive masculinity.  I'll be sharing that with you when it's ready.

In the meantime, this is what rocks MY world.  How about you?

Please send me your thoughts. 

Do any of these FEEL about right for you too?

Femininity Seen Through My 6 Senses

Sight: 

It looks soft, smooth, and shiny.  It is graceful and delicate.  It sways with a sensual, but confident rhythm.  It is curvy where I am not.  It is colorful - even when dressed in black.

 

Hearing:

It sounds cheerful and inviting.  The tone is melodic, but self-assured.  It sounds bright and intelligent whether bass or soprano.  It calms and soothes.  It is a sound that invites safety and sound sleep.

 

Smell:

The aroma is sweet and alluring whether shower fresh or 20-mile hike sweaty.  It's like walking into a flower shop - but not a candle shop.  The fragrance is from nature and is able to lower my blood pressure.  If I could bottle how it makes me feel - I would.  And I'd be rich.

 

Taste:

From head to toe the flavor can only be described as "otherness".  I know it's just skin covered in dust mites, but it's HER skin.  And GOD it tastes good.  From soapy freshness to intoxicating pungency, it's ALL GIRL.  It's as inviting and dangerous as 5 pounds of the sweetest, coolest, crispest, watermelon you've ever had on a hot summer day.

 

Touch:

Where do I start?  Physical touch is my main love language.  It feels like it looks - soft, silky, smooth, and sexy.  Her complaints about it are laughable.  She obviously cannot feel what I feel.  I feel the deep, heaving breaths as she relaxes and softly invites my lips and fingers to explore.  The absence of tension in her skin and her energy offers me acceptance and approval.  The texture has magnetic power.

 

Heart Intuition:

My heart experiences femininity as a nurturing strength.  It envelopes my energy with warmth and intensely powerful conviction.  Its boundaries are firm but loving.  It is bright-eyed and confident as it melds with my energy in a dance of mutual admiration, appreciation, attraction and desire.

I had to gather my heart and my balls to write all that out.  This is my truth.  It felt a little scary to put it out there for you.

It's the most liberating thing a man or woman can do.

We should all do it without shame or apology.  Life is very short.

Contact me asap if you want help in speaking your truth and having it be HEARD.

I want to do that with you and for you.

To Better Life and Love,

Steve

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