This Was Written Specifically With YOU in Mind

I know EXACTLY what the two words, Sexual and Rejection, can do to your heart rate, blood pressure, and overall sense of personal well-being.

You would not be reading this if you would not among the ranks of the huge majority of men for whom hearing "sexual rejection" is like yelling "Squirrel!" around any dog.  It immediately gets our attention and usually conjures up bad memories and/or bad expectations for our next attempted seduction.

That's why I wrote this for you.  It's also why I spend my life helping guys like you understand yourself and women at a much deeper level.  Until you really understand what is going on with you AND her, you will feel permanently victimized by those two words and the women who seem so omnipotent in delivering them.

How do I know these are true?

I've spent a long time working with men and women on this topic.  These principles come from an extremely consistent "database" of conversations and feedback from them.  Most therapists and coaches I talk to agree with these. Sometimes, generalizations like these don't ALWAYS hold true in each case. 

For example, if you or your partner has a serious physical condition which is at the root of the problem, some of this will not be helpful to you.  Most importantly, if you read these and they "bite" at you with a ring of truth, you should trust that. Even with our powers of denial, when a man looks deep he can usually see the truth.

What responsibility does SHE have?  What about the cold, hard truths I wish SHE knew?

This question is the first sign that you and your partner are heavily invested in the "blame game".  The most important thing you will learn here is about YOUR power to make changes in yourself that allow HER to change. 

It is YOUR personal power that can set the energy and environment needed to allow you to reach your personal goals and achieve the relationship you desire.

There is a time and place to communicate and defend your principles.  She shares the accountability for improving your relationship.  But, the process starts with you choosing how you will respond to THESE principles.  If you decide that none of these is a principle you want to consider for your life, you probably won't want to read the rest of this report.

The Seven Truths She Wishes You Knew

1. "Reacting" emotionally or negatively to sexual rejection will ALWAYS result in INCREASING your NEEDINESS factor and REDUCING your ATTRACTION factor. Always.  Not sometimes. Always. Did I say ALWAYS?

2. She has the right to say no - as many times as she wants to. Whenever she wants to.  She doesn't need to explain.  Do NOT ask "why?"  She won't tell you.  She may not even know exactly why. Trying to dissect her emotions with logic at this point will ALWAYS be a bad idea as it will immediately cause pressure, anger, and disrespect.  At this point, all she really wants is a safe, manly response she can count on.

3. You are a sexual being.  Period.  So is she.  You know it and I know it. You've also made it obvious to her.  She gets it.  She knows you want and like sex - a lot.  SHE is ALSO a sexual being - no matter what she says or does.  She enjoys feeling desired and turned on by men.  She is NOT feeling that with you if she is continually rejecting you.  There are reasons she is rejecting you.  Some of them are your fault.  Some of them are not.

4. It is just plain ugly when you take it personally and act like she owes you. (See #1)  No woman is contractually obligated to have sex with you (except for a prostitute, maybe).  Not even her wedding vows are legally binding commitments to making your sex life wonderful.  If she feels scared, worried, pressured, guilty, judged, or criticized for declining sex, she will VERY QUICKLY resent you and CONTINUE rejecting you.  She needs to KNOW that you know this and respect this.

5. Sexual rejection is not an automatic "red flag" for your relationship.  At some point in ALL relationships, either partner may not be "in the mood".  Declining an offer for sex should not be a scary affair.  It makes her feel unsafe and uncertain about you when you treat her rejection as a sign of a crumbling relationship.  If you keep one foot "out the door" constantly she can NEVER relax into you and your masculine safety and sensuality.
   

6. A woman who resents you cannot be attracted to you.  If you end up having sex with a resentful woman, it is ONLY because she feels OBLIGATED to participate.  She wants to keep the peace...even with a man she resents.  Obligation sex becomes the only kind of sex you will ever have.  It gets worse and less frequent as time goes by.  This is a downward spiral which is difficult to "unwind".

7. "Unwinding" the downward spiral of resentment and "obligation sex" CAN be done.  She WANTS YOU TO LEAD THE WAY!  The process is simple but is not without serious commitment.  The process MUST be LED by you.  Only YOU have the power to unwind the negative energy of resentment and fear and begin creating POSITIVE feelings of trust, respect, and desire again.  You get to CHOOSE to be this man or the man who is stuck in obligation sex hell until the end of his life or marriage - whichever comes first.

Let's Start With #1

Why is Responding Instead of Reacting So Important?

This ONE THING can make all the difference for you - starting tonight.

Too simple? Hardly. It's every man's demon.

The importance of RESPONDING vs. REACTING is repeated in nearly ALL of my custom coaching modules.  

Why?  What's the difference?

You can choose to ATTRACT or choose to REPEL her based solely on how you RESPOND or REACT.

• Attractive

• Positive

• Bold

• Mature

• Preconceived

• Confident

• Compassionate

• Courageous

• Consistent

• Controlled

Reacting is:

• Unattractive

• Negative

• Meek

• Childish

• Unintentional

• Wishy-Washy

• Resentful

• Fearful

• Unpredictable

• Uncontrolled

When you take the time to think and decide how you would like to respond to stressful situations, you feel prepared.  You feel clear headed.  You feel confident and even CALM.

We can anticipate dozens of situations that we KNOW are going to occur and actually CHOOSE ahead of time how we want to respond.  We get to choose WHO we want to be in that situation.  This is a choice we can make - for ourselves.  This is not a choice in anticipation of controlling or "one upping" somebody else. 

We simply KNOW what we think, where we stand, and what we want to say.

This knowledge is the source of tremendous self-confidence, clarity, and COURAGE.  When we already know how we are going to RESPOND, we have no fear about how things will turn out.  

The "Awakening Her Sexuality" coaching will help you formulate your values, your thoughts, and your WORDS each step along the way!

A properly planned response has no planned outcome.  We don't EXPECT anyone to actually agree with us or change their behavior on the spot.  Once we remove expectations for outcomes and replace them with expectations of OURSELVES, we don't have to worry about the reactions from others.

Reactions come from a place of emotional stress, uncertainty, fear, and resentment (among others!).  Reactions are usually ripe with negative feelings and intended blame and insults.  Reactions are defensive.

Reactions are rarely preconceived and can represent some of the ugliest language, tone, and intention a man can muster.

Reactions come from a place of unsatisfied expectations of others.  Sure, sometimes reactions get results.  Think about times we you have received poor customer service or tried to return a broken product to a store.  Sometimes angry reactions, threats, and slightly out-of-control language can get results.  This is normally because the other party is intimidated and fearful of further escalation or threats.

Is this your intention with your wife or girlfriend?  Is that the man YOU want to be?  Is that the man you want HER to be attracted to?

I will help you directly face the fears and pain that cause you to react.  

We will develop ways to proactively deal with them each time they rear their ugly head!

When you think about the choice to respond or react to something, think about the positive influence and attractive power of a RESPONSE.

Think of all the things you ALREADY KNOW are going to occur:

• Getting cut off in traffic

• A child's failed test

• A child's disrespect

• An angry co-worker or boss

• A disappointed mother

• A nagging wife

• Spilled milk - spilled whatever

• A wife who rejected you for sex for the 5th time this month!

If you can master the skill of RESPONDING TO SEXUAL REJECTION, you will be on track to REVERSING THE SEXUAL ENERGY and making you ATTRACTIVE to her once again!

What are some of the most common REACTIONS men have when they are sexually rejected by their wife?  Maybe some of these will sound familiar.

• Why not?  It's been a freakin' week!   (2 weeks, month, etc.)

• You are NEVER interested in sex!

• What have I done wrong now?

• Do I have to be PERFECT?

• Fine. Just great. (then rolling over and pretend to sleep while stewing)

• Fine, I'll just sleep on the couch!

• You just aren't attracted to me, are you?

• We're living like roommates!

• Why can't you be more like [friend's name] wife?

• What do I have to do?  

• Son-of-a-bitch! I'm sick of trying with you. Why should I bother?

I will help you eliminate these thoughts and feelings and formulate the PERFECT replacement responses that will change everything for you.

This will be possible for you because you will learn how to change your perception of HER feelings and HER intentions. 

You will learn why it is not a personal attack on you and how to respond in ways that will grab her attention and interest.

Do you have any of these signs of a struggling sexual relationship?

• There is building resentment, distance, and arguments regarding sex.  

• Talking about it erupts into arguments and no longer seems to be an option. 
  

• If sex does happen, it is typically out of feelings of obligation.  

• The quality and duration of sex is poor.  

• There is little to no post-sex cuddle time.  

• There seems to be a list of things on her mind that are much higher in priority than sex.  

• You feel sad, hurt, angry, and desirous of other women.  

• You may be spending unhealthy amounts of time looking at pornography.

I love getting emails from clients telling me, "You wouldn't believe what happened this morning!" They go on to tell me about how their wife or girlfriend looked at them differently - touched them differently - or initiated sex for the first time! 

"Through the "tune up" program I realized I wasn't seeing my part in the problem, and the strength I had to change the situation by changing my own behavior.  Steve's coaching challenged me by revealing some of the things I was overlooking about my marriage, my wife's needs, and pointed me toward a more manly response.  He gave me the inside track on what she was looking for as a woman and what she would respond to.  By following some simple guidelines, doing reading assignments, and having some very good long talks with Steve I started changing my behavior... and my wife responded.  She opened up more.  She started getting the emotional safety and security she needs and I was beginning to be able to have sex with my wife again."  ~Paul K. - Los Angeles

Sometimes this happens after ONE PHONE CALL with me after they learn the ONE THING they've never paid attention to.  It's a game changer.

It's one of the first and most important things I can teach you and I will help you develop it as a strength. 

It's a HUGE relationship skill every man MUST have.

Once you learn this ONE THING, the energy in your relationship starts changing immediately. 

Respect begins to return.  Emotional safety starts its comeback.

Your ATTRACTION FACTOR to her (or any woman) instantly begins to climb!

"Steve helped me truly understand what I was not bringing to my relationship, how what my relationship desperately needed was inside of me, and how my not 'showing up' impacted my relationship in a way that I didn't want.  He's a wizard! He's friendly and firm. He's wise and open. He's confirming and encouraging. He will move you like you've never been moved before . . . if you are truly ready. He will be worth your time." ~ J. Fournet - Colorado

The PROOF is not only in the results my past clients achieved or in their testimonials.

The PROOF will be in HOW YOU FEEL immediately after our first coaching session.  That will be all the proof you need.

That feeling will tell you that you are FINALLY on the right path.  The one you've been looking for.  The one you're SUPPOSED to be on!

So, What Do You Do Now?

Simple.  Call or email me today and say:

"Steve, I like what I hear.  I want to work with you.  Let's get started ASAP.

I want a FREE Discovery Call now."

As soon as we connect on the free Discovery Call, I will ask you if you have an hour to settle in. I'll ask you if you are in a private, comfortable place to talk.

I'll ask you to take a deep breath so we can start getting REAL with each other fast. The hour will go by super fast and your head will be swimming. You will wish you wrote something down.

Then, you will tell me that you feel a LOT better just by getting it out and realizing that you've got a lot of hope.

Email:  steve@goodguys2greatmen.com

Phone:  970-484-8241

Or CLICK HERE to go to the "Awakening Her Sexuality" sign up page now.

What does "working with me" really mean?  What results will you see?

The "Awakening Her Sexuality" Program will help you:

• Clarify and understand your current situation and challenges in ways you have never imagined.  

• Learn about the nature of feminine arousal and seduction in direct language you haven't heard before.

• Understand certain truths about how your wife thinks and feels that will blow your mind

• Dissect and evaluate your past reactions and how they have affected your wife

• Discuss and Formulate a NEW plan of action and specific responses that will reverse her mind

• Provide you access to the HIGHEST QUALITY resources for learning about female attraction and sexual mastery which will launch you forward quickly!

Working with me means having a minimum of THREE PHONE CALLS to establish your NEW PLAN OF ACTION.

We will follow-up continually on the improvements and adjustments you will need to make along the way.

You will have UNLIMITED email support during and after your program!

If that's not enough, how about a 100% NO RISK, MONEY BACK GUARANTEE?  Click here for details.

Remember, I understand you - your fears and your desires.  If you have actually read this far, you belong here.

You are the perfect candidate to make MAJOR improvements in your relationship. 

Choose the right response today.

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