Hi buddy, Got a sec? You may like this.
I'm recovering from 4 days of "flu-like" symptoms, so hate mail was especially fun this week. FYI, apparently "flu-like" is code for feeling like a crappy, aching, worthless piece of sh*t stuck in the folds of a couch.
Here it is, a word-for-word response from a guy who hates me. I love it. He inspires me.
"Steve, you have a one-sided nature of your coaching philosophy and frankly, I detest it. Why? Because:
1) it assumes the man is always at fault and the problem and
2) the woman is treated as this fragile human being who needs an "environment in which her femininity and passion can blossom."
Hence, the one-sided and ugly approach. So, even if a woman is pathetic.....still the burden is on the man! What kind of bull is this man? You are insane! Only dumb suckers would engage your services."
I happen to know this
gent is a bitter divorcee who still holds lots of hateful bitterness from his divorce. I get that. What I don't get is that he also wrote, "I'm now a totally different man with my girlfriend. I want to treat her with respect and appreciation and the sex is awesome. It's how it should be."
Hmmm...I wonder which came
first - the respect/appreciation or the sex?
Why does he "want" to treat his girlfriend so well?
Is it because he knows now it will earn him sex?
What will he do if she begins rejecting him for sex?
Will he no longer be a "totally different man"?
What then?
What kind of man will he turn into?
HOW DOES THIS HELP YOU?
This hate mail helps you see what people with unresolved pain and anger sound like.
Even when the object of the pain and anger is long gone and life is looking up, they continue looking for a fight. They keep looking for someone to blame.
They hold on to their angry false beliefs about the power of women to hurt them.
The day the new girlfriend gives him a "wrong" reaction to something, he'll be in the same boat all over again. Poor guy.
Now you know what it looks like.
Let's work on not being him.
REMEMBER THE TRUTH
By now I know that you know the truth about
my coaching message. This has been established for eons by millions of great men before you and me.
- It's almost NEVER "all our fault".
- Women are not all that fragile and are hugely capable of helping create a great relationship.
And who the fuck cares?
Attempting to fix the faults of others will waste your time and ruin your life
...and
There is positively no way
you can force a woman to WANT to be more capable.
Unless he wants to end up like my friend above, a great man makes his own changes.
He adopts his own standards for the way he thinks, speaks, and acts toward women.
He allows women their free will to choose what kind of life they wish to live. They get to choose how they wish to think, speak, and act toward him.
In most
cases, they begin to make healthy choices for themselves and their relationships.
But, what happens when she consistently makes unhealthy choices?
What should you do? What are you afraid of?
Are you afraid of the prospective pain of letting her go?
Are you afraid of the work required to be the kind of a man who can inspire her to realize her own value and join you in a better relationship?
I'm telling you now.
The year-after-year pain of doing nothing at all will FAR outweigh any fear you may have now.
Let me help you with your fear. Don't wait another decade to "see how it goes". Let's talk. It'll bring a smile of confidence back to your soul. Promise.
So far, I'm batting 1000 in making men feel better in one free call. Grab a beer and
find a quiet spot. Let's talk.
Here's a link to an article to help you make a resolution you will want to keep.
Lose the Fear of Female Rejection in 2014!
Then decide what plan below suits you best.
Your 2014 Improvement Plan Options
To Better Life and Love,
Steve
Office: (970)484-8241 Cell: (970)219-2148
www.goodguys2greatmen.com
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