Happy Holidays Gentlemen,
I just wanted to wish you well and let you know I've been thinking about you.
One quick story and I'll let you go to shop for the one thing you haven't gotten yet.
Or maybe you should consider "taking" something from her this year instead of "giving".
One client decided to do this recently and he
is seeing both his emotional AND sexual connection begin to thrive again.
What did he take from her?
The way he put it, he thought the last few years he had given her reason to doubt her security in their marriage.
He had used the "D" word (divorce) a number of times when he was angry.
He had given her all kinds of indications of his disappointment and frequently pointed out her inadequacies.
He told me how he quickly gave her the cold shoulder at the first
sign of conflict.
He decided this year he would take those back from her.
Was it easy? No.
He started with a nice dinner out and took about 2 minutes to explain to her that he wanted to "take" some things away this year.
She was shocked and teary eyed as he explained that the "D" word was no longer in his mind or vocabulary. That he wanted her to know that it wasn't an option for him. That he knew he could give her what she needed from him and he
wanted to be that man for her.
He didn't make a big deal out of it. He knew she would be skeptical, even through her tears of happiness.
Fast forward only 90 days. Things have changed for him.
They are both kinder to each other. They randomly touch each other more. They talk about how lucky they are compared to other couples.
They speak sweeter. They are being more supportive of each other.
Their lovemaking has turned to a
higher quality, more satisfying level.
He found out that better quality sex was higher on his priorities than just more sex.
He's not done with himself or his marriage. Work in progress as we say.
It's not perfect. Life still gets in the way every day.
But his new energy and commitment and HER new confidence in him and the marriage has turned the tables.
Bottom line?
Sometimes it's better to TAKE than to GIVE.
Do it for one reason
only.
It's the man you want to be.
The man you were meant to be.
The phone has been ringing a lot during this time. If you're down about yourself or your relationship, please give me a call or email.
I'm not going anywhere and just might talk you out of your funk.
www.goodguys2greatmen.com
To Better Life and Love,
Steve
Office: (970)484-8241 Cell: (970)219-2148
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